讓愛(ài)情保鮮的27個(gè)法寶

 
14. Do it his or her way--sometimes; you need to do things their way just to show how much you love them and respect their feelings.

   按照對(duì)方喜歡的方式行事——有時(shí)候，你可以按照對(duì)方喜歡的方式行事，并以此來(lái)傳達(dá)你對(duì)伴侶的愛(ài)戀和尊重。

 
15. Know his or her needs--what good is a spouse if he/she does not know the needs of their significant others? This should be your primary concern!

   知道對(duì)方的需求——如果不知道另一半的需要，那還算什么好伴侶？這一點(diǎn)是首先需要留心的。

 
16. Compliment twice a day--everyone likes to hear something nice as a compliment; so give them that when it is due.

   每天互相恭維兩次——人人都愛(ài)聽(tīng)恭維話，所以在適當(dāng)?shù)臅r(shí)候說(shuō)些好話。

 
17. Call during the day--but don't over do it and be obsessed with calling him/her. Give them their space but also show them that you think of them by a 2-minutes phone call saying "how are you doing?"

   打通電話——不要總是給對(duì)方打電話。給他們一些空間的同時(shí)，打個(gè)簡(jiǎn)短的問(wèn)候電話，讓他們了解你的惦念。

 
18. Cuddle--yes; intimacy is very important and reflects love and deep feelings.

   擁抱——是的，親昵的行為可以傳達(dá)愛(ài)意，增進(jìn)情感。

 
19. Show respect--showing respect is more important than showing love.

   尊重對(duì)方——顯示你的尊重比表達(dá)愛(ài)意更加重要。

20. Welcome the other person home--show enthusiasm when they come home and greet them; this means that you are happy because they are home now and that you were waiting for them!

   歡迎另一半回家——熱情地歡迎你的伴侶回家。讓他們感受到你的期盼和你的快樂(lè)。

 
21. Celebrate birthdays in a big way--this does not mean a big party; just show them you care about their personal occasions.

   隆重慶生——并不是說(shuō)你要為對(duì)方的生日大操大辦，而是說(shuō)你要傳遞出你很重視這個(gè)特別日子的信息。

 
22. Forgive--from the heart and not only in words.

   寬恕——自心底而不是嘴上說(shuō)聲原諒。

23. Set up a romantic getaway--this sounds like fun every once in a while; no harm in that!

   策劃一次浪漫出游——時(shí)不時(shí)搞一次，其樂(lè)無(wú)窮，完全沒(méi)有副作用！

 
24. Respond quickly to the other person's request--show them that you are doing this because you care for them the most.

   快速響應(yīng)對(duì)方的需求——這樣做就是為了顯示你有多么在意對(duì)方。

 
25. Treat each others' friends and relatives with courtesy--even if you don't like their family and/or friends, you treat them with respect and courtesy for the sake of your spouse; they deserve that much.

   善待對(duì)方的朋友和親屬——即便你不喜歡伴侶的朋友和親屬，為了你的伴侶，你也要善待他們。

 
26. Admit when wrong--don't be too arrogant to say it.

   有錯(cuò)的時(shí)候認(rèn)錯(cuò)——不要自負(fù)到拒絕認(rèn)錯(cuò)。

 
27. End the day with a hug--show closeness and again; intimacy.

   用擁抱結(jié)束一天的生活——再次用親昵的行為表達(dá)親密的關(guān)系。