1. Start each day with a kiss--I think this one is not that hard; on the contrary; it can be healthy and nice.
用一個吻迎接新的一天。接吻如此簡單,卻能令人身心愉悅。
2. Date once a week--May not as often as once a week, let's say every other week or that a date can be inside your home and that you don't have to go somewhere fancy to have it, you get the idea, right?
一周約會一次。也不必非得一周一次,也可以兩周一次。而且約會的地點可以在家中,不必非去什么特別的地方。你是不是明白了?有心就好。
3. Accept differences--No one is perfect. However; healthy arguments are good for the relationship, hence; the most important thing would be learning how to compromise with one another.
接受彼此的不同,因為人無完人。適度的爭論可以增進(jìn)雙方的關(guān)系,但重要的是要在爭論中懂得妥協(xié)。
4. Be polite--Please, thank you, you are welcome… these are not only meant for strangers; your own spouse and family should come first and you must always use these phrases inside your home.
多用禮貌用語。請、謝謝、不客氣這些話不只要說給陌生人聽,更要說給你的伴侶和家人聽。在家里要記得多用這些客氣話?!?/p>
5. Be gentle--a person is supposed to be the closest to his/her spouse, being gentle is crucial to keep them close enough.
溫柔一些——若想關(guān)系親密,溫柔是至關(guān)重要的。
6. Give gifts--nice small gifts are appreciated every once in a while.
給對方送禮物——偶爾送些甜蜜小禮物,就能令對方感激不盡。
7. Touch--intimacy between married people is very important and touching is a means of communication that reflects closeness, connection and love; it is your way of keeping the spark alive.
撫觸——情侶間的撫觸非常重要,它可以增進(jìn)情感,傳達(dá)愛意。它是情感交流的一種方式,它可以讓愛的火花常燃不熄。
8. Talk about dreams--dreams of the future that is; if you don't share your dreams with your spouse; then who?
談?wù)搲粝?mdash;—說說對未來的憧憬。試想,若不和伴侶分享你的夢想,那么還能同誰講呢?
9. Select a song that can be "our song" —— this sounds like a cliché, but it can be nice, don't you think?
選一首歌作為“你倆的歌”——聽起來有點老套,但是不是很美妙?
10. Laugh together--laughter is medicine. When you share good laughs together; the fun grows in the relationship and you grow closer and stronger every day.
一起開懷大笑——笑是良藥。當(dāng)你倆一起開懷的時候,你們的關(guān)系也會伴隨著笑聲一天天地親近和堅固起來?! ?/p>
11. Send a card for no reason--another cliché? Maybe, but everyone likes to receive a nice "I love you" or "I miss you" notes every once in a while.
沒什么緣由地送張卡片——又很老套嗎?不過誰不喜歡時不時地收到些“我愛你”,“我想你”之類的卡片呢?
12. Listen--this could be the most important one ever, but note that you should listen with empathy and not just hear what they are saying; you should get involved.
聆聽——這非常重要,但注意聆聽的時候你應(yīng)該全情投入并參與其中,而不僅僅只是聽到了對方說的話。
13. Encourage--positive support and being there for one another is also very important; seek their support and give them yours and be generous!
鼓勵——彼此支持是非常重要的。向?qū)Ψ綄で笾С植⒖犊亟o予對方支持!
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