新托福獨(dú)立寫(xiě)作解析:不可能永遠(yuǎn)對(duì)對(duì)朋友完全誠(chéng)實(shí)

　　Do you agree or disagree: It is impossible to always be completely honest with your friends?

　　新托福獨(dú)立寫(xiě)作思路解析

　　能否對(duì)朋友絕對(duì)的誠(chéng)實(shí)：

　　能：

　　1 相互誠(chéng)實(shí)，才能獲取彼此的信任，友誼才能維持長(zhǎng)久

　　2 只有誠(chéng)實(shí)的朋友，才會(huì)開(kāi)誠(chéng)布公的幫助彼此提出不足，監(jiān)督改進(jìn)

　　不能：

　　1 朋友之間也需要善意的謊言

　　2 人們會(huì)保護(hù)隱私

　　品質(zhì)類(lèi)話(huà)題中，關(guān)于“誠(chéng)實(shí)”的題目是考過(guò)若干次的!

　　TPO2

　　Do you agree or disagree with the following statement?

　　Always telling the truth is the most important consideration in any relationship between people.

　　2017年1月7日

　　You are helping to select a leader for a student organization or a group. Do you think a person's honesty is the most important characteristic for being a leader?

　　2014-12-21和2013-10-25

　　Do you agree or disagree with the following statement?

　　Honesty is the most important characteristic to a leader.

　　2013-03-02

　　Do you agree or disagree with the following statement?

　　People should state their honest opinions even though they know others might disagree with them.

　　等等...

　　如上TPO中和以前考過(guò)的題目這些題目都涉及到了being honest的優(yōu)勢(shì)，比如只有誠(chéng)實(shí)才能做到公平公正;只有誠(chéng)實(shí)才能在跟人相處過(guò)程中感情越來(lái)越深厚等等。當(dāng)然，不誠(chéng)實(shí)也有不誠(chéng)實(shí)的道理，來(lái)引導(dǎo)大家想一下，朋友問(wèn)你什么時(shí)候，你是否會(huì)全部誠(chéng)實(shí)的說(shuō)出來(lái)?

　　想想那種不愿說(shuō)出的事情：比如你的失戀經(jīng)歷，比如你的家人不理解你，再比如你有個(gè)怪癖...Anyway，就是你是否有時(shí)候?yàn)榱耸裁炊蝗P(pán)托出呢?privacy，很多人都會(huì)有比較private的事情，這些事情是不對(duì)人說(shuō)出的，包括朋友;這種涉及到人際關(guān)系的話(huà)題(對(duì)朋友、對(duì)家人、對(duì)同學(xué)、對(duì)人脈)都可以從自身和對(duì)方兩方面來(lái)頭腦風(fēng)暴。

　　那么，對(duì)于朋友們，對(duì)于他們的言行是涉及到他們的事情，我們就都要誠(chéng)實(shí)的告知或者表達(dá)嗎?回憶一下，有沒(méi)有那種關(guān)于朋友的事情，自己沒(méi)有誠(chéng)實(shí)表達(dá)觀點(diǎn)的時(shí)候?比如上回聚會(huì)閨蜜穿的那條裙子，或者哥們考試又掛了，再比如朋友的joke并沒(méi)有很好笑等等，就是你一定隨時(shí)都誠(chéng)實(shí)么?不誠(chéng)實(shí)的原因和顧慮是什么?有的時(shí)候，朋友并不想聽(tīng)實(shí)話(huà)，或者有時(shí)候忠言逆耳，你并不想說(shuō)出不中聽(tīng)的來(lái)，雖然實(shí)話(huà)對(duì)朋友有利。

　　品質(zhì)類(lèi)話(huà)題的簡(jiǎn)單之處就在于:題目跟生活的關(guān)聯(lián)性強(qiáng)——所以，學(xué)會(huì)聯(lián)想和回憶很重要;思路方面，一般情況下，都是同不同意都有話(huà)說(shuō)，主要看自己哪方便的語(yǔ)料更多;語(yǔ)言方面，對(duì)專(zhuān)業(yè)性詞匯的要求相對(duì)低(針對(duì)環(huán)境類(lèi)和政府類(lèi)話(huà)題而言)，學(xué)生只需選取自己熟悉的形容詞和表達(dá)即可。

　　新托福獨(dú)立寫(xiě)作范文

　　We can never over emphasis the importance of friends who help us get through hard time and keep us company in daily life. Though it is commonly believed that honesty and mutual trust are essential ingredients for people to maintain friendship in the long run, people usually have justified excuses to lie or encounter various situations under which they have to hide the truth. In fact, to be absolutely honest with friends is impossible.

　　To begin with, people sometimes tell white lies, in order to protect friends’ feelings and interests. Under certain circumstances, the so-called truth does no good to friends but bring many troubles. At this moment, although friends may appreciate our honesty, they still feel hurt and choose to keep distance with us, as our appearance will remind them the unhappy situation. Gradually, friends become estranged and feel difficult to patch up the relationship. Therefore, to avoid unnecessary frictions, people need white lies. For example, it is unwise to tell a female friend that she has gained weight and does not fit the new dress, if she comes to show her new look happily. The candid comments will severely discourage her confidence or even irritate her if she is sensitive on her appearance. On the contrary, white lies can help her keep positive and if necessary we could advise her to do more exercises to keep fit.

　　Secondly, people sometimes hide privacy with friends to avoid embarrassment and give themselves an opportunity to forget the past and have a new beginning. Inevitably, people encounter something unpleasant or even disgraceful, such as discomfiture and defeat. When asked by friends about those experiences, people either refuse to answer or make up another story. Furthermore, for some people who have suffered too much, they even move to a new place to start a new life and make new friends. In a new environment that no one knows him or her, the fake but well-meaning introduction of one’s background is therefore acceptable. Take a criminal who gets released from the prison as an example. With no offense, he usually chooses to hide the unmentionable experience behind bars to new friends met in gym in a new city that he tries to settle down.

　　To sum up, there is almost no unconditional honesty between friends. On the opposite, people need white lies to be in rapport with friends in the long term. Also, there are justified reasons for people to hide truth so as to avoid troubles.