九歲純真男孩書(shū)寫(xiě)愛(ài)情寶典

       In his book, Alec suggests that men find a cool role model to base their behaviour on. “The best choice for most boys is a regular girl.” he said. Alec also offers advice for when relationships don’t work out so well. On breaking-up, he said: “You say something like, ‘I don’t think this is really going to work but would you like to be friends’.” On being dumped, he replied: “I say, life is hard, move on. If you can’t get over it, it’s ruined.”

　　在書(shū)中，亞歷克建議男性要為自己的舉止樹(shù)立一個(gè)好榜樣。他認(rèn)為，“對(duì)于大多數(shù)男孩來(lái)說(shuō)，最好是選擇一個(gè)普通女孩。” 亞歷克對(duì)于相處不順的情況也提出了建議，比如分手時(shí)，他認(rèn)為：“這種情況下應(yīng)該說(shuō)‘我認(rèn)為我們倆在一起不合適，但能讓我們繼續(xù)做朋友嗎’之類(lèi)的話(huà)。”  如果被甩了呢？亞歷克的回答是：“我會(huì)說(shuō)生活就是如此艱難，繼續(xù)生活吧。要拋開(kāi)過(guò)去，否則你的生活就毀了。”