每個(gè)人都會(huì)經(jīng)歷這樣的時(shí)期:發(fā)現(xiàn)身邊那些親近的人開(kāi)始變得有點(diǎn)煩了。
You suddenly realized that they've always been talking and talking.
你會(huì)突然意識(shí)到,長(zhǎng)久以來(lái)他們就一直不停地在說(shuō)啊說(shuō)。
They never stopped.
他們從來(lái)就沒(méi)有停過(guò)。
Some of us get angry with them, thinking they are trying too hard to intervene in our lives.
我們中的有些人,會(huì)開(kāi)始變得憤怒,覺(jué)得他們對(duì)我們的生活介入太多。
But don't.
但是,請(qǐng)不要憤怒。
Only those who really care about you will bother saying so much to you.
只有那些真正關(guān)心我們的人才會(huì)費(fèi)勁對(duì)我們說(shuō)這么多。
It's just that maybe they don't know the right way to put it.
只是,他們可能并不知道正確的相處辦法。
Some of them push too hard because they care too much.
他們中有些人逼得太緊,那是因?yàn)樗麄兲诤酢?/p>
Some of them speak too much because they worry about you too much.
他們中的有些人說(shuō)得太多,那是因?yàn)樗麄兲珦?dān)心你。
They do this because they love you.
他們這么做,都是因?yàn)閻?ài)你。
So don't push them away.
所以,不要將他們拒于千里之外。
Just find a way to let them know what you truly want.
去找一個(gè)辦法告訴他們你真的想要的是什么吧。
And let them grow with you.
并且去讓他們和你一起成長(zhǎng)。
That will make both of you happy.
那會(huì)讓你們雙方都過(guò)得幸福。
Believe me.
相信我。