英語(yǔ)辯論賽話題精選主題31：愛(ài)情是否可以在婚姻中培養(yǎng)

It is better to remain single than settle for someone incompatible.

寧可單身也不愿意隨隨便便就嫁人(寧缺毋濫)。

Marriage and hanging go by destiny. I stick to the idea that God must have created the very man for me. Though the future seems obscure now, Mr Right must be waiting for me. As an independent lady, I should. be responsible for my choice, especially the choice about my marriage is of vital importance either for me or for my partner. I don't want to marry someone in haste(猶豫) just because my peers have got married. I am sure he must be busy on the way, too. All that I need to do now is to wait with patience. Just as the old Chinese saying goes: Many things grow in the garden that were never sown there.

婚姻和死亡一樣，都是命中注定的。我堅(jiān)信上帝已經(jīng)安排了一個(gè)適合我的人。雖然未來(lái)充滿了不確定，但是我的白馬王子一定正在某個(gè)地方等著我。作為一名獨(dú)立的女性，我應(yīng)該對(duì)自己的選擇負(fù)責(zé)，尤其是婚姻，因?yàn)樗徽搶?duì)于自己還是另一半都是至關(guān)重要的。我不希望自己是因?yàn)榭吹酵g好友嫁了人才猶猶豫豫勉強(qiáng)選擇結(jié)婚。我一直都相信我的那個(gè)"他"也在忙碌地尋找著我，而我現(xiàn)在需要做的就是耐心等待。就像中國(guó)的一句老話"有心栽花花不開(kāi)，無(wú)心插柳柳成蔭"。

Love can be built in a real marriage.

愛(ài)情是可以在婚姻中培養(yǎng)的。

Love is divine while marriage turns out to be more realistic. The family life covers much more than the passion between the couple, responsibility and trust count, too. To this end, an excellent boyfriend can not guarantee a perfect husband. It is the tolerance and understanding in marriage that generate a happy family. Every man has his faults. If we expect perfection from others, it can only result in disappointment and loneliness. Fair evaluation(評(píng)定) toward both parties is indispensable for a marriage and the efforts made by the couple turns out to be more prominent(優(yōu)秀的) in the success of a marriage.

愛(ài)情是神圣而美好的，但婚姻卻往往非?，F(xiàn)實(shí)?；橐錾畎牟粌H僅是愛(ài)侶之間的激情，還有責(zé)任與信任。因此，一個(gè)優(yōu)秀的男朋友并不一定可以成為一個(gè)完美的丈夫。只有相互容忍、相互理解才能組建起一個(gè)幸?？鞓?lè)的家庭。人非圣賢，孰能無(wú)過(guò)。如果我們寄予對(duì)方過(guò)高的要求，最后自己只能是失望并再次陷入孤獨(dú)。因此，相互給予合理的評(píng)定在婚姻中是必不可少的。夫妻兩人一起努力共同進(jìn)步才能造就一段美好婚姻。