十二星座如何維護(hù)各自的友情

　　Cancer: be vulnerable You have lovely manners and an air of decorum that keeps your friendly unions supportive and positive. Just remember that it’s okay to be honest with the people who love you, even when your true feelings are not pretty. If you always try to hide emotions like sadness or anger, you’ll miss an opportunity for healthy bonding.

　　巨蟹座：袒露真實(shí)感受你舉止友好、端莊大方，能讓你的朋友們感到慰藉和信心。你只需謹(jǐn)記，在喜愛你的人面前袒露心扉沒有關(guān)系——哪怕你的真實(shí)感受不討喜。如果你總是設(shè)法掩飾真實(shí)情緒——比如悲傷或憤怒——你會(huì)喪失與好友保持健康的親密關(guān)系的機(jī)會(huì)。

　　 Leo: just listen There is no skill that’s more rare and precious to a friendship than good listening. It is done with the mouth closed and the heart open. It comes without anecdotes from your own life or stories about when you were in a similar position. Undivided attention is a gift that doesn’t cost anything to give, and yet it’s so valuable.

　　 獅子座：學(xué)會(huì)用心傾聽友誼中最可貴的品質(zhì)就是認(rèn)真傾聽。它需要你緊閉雙唇、用心感受。你無須分享你生活中的趣聞，或遇到相似情形時(shí)的故事。全神貫注并不會(huì)讓你花費(fèi)任何金錢，但對(duì)好友來說卻彌足珍貴。

　　Virgo: be easy People mess up sometimes. Your grace in overlooking the mistakes and flaws of your friends will elevate you to sainthood. And in the unlikely case that you too should blunder in the future, you’ll be deserving of the same mercy. And the best part about letting these minor blunders go is the lightness of being that accompanies acts of forgiveness.

　　 處女座：把事情看開點(diǎn)每個(gè)人都有把事情弄糟的時(shí)候。寬容好友的缺點(diǎn)與瑕疵的風(fēng)度會(huì)將你提升至圣人的高度。萬一將來你也犯了錯(cuò)，你會(huì)得到同樣的寬恕。從小錯(cuò)誤中解脫的最大好處就是你能在原諒錯(cuò)誤的同時(shí)卸下沉重負(fù)擔(dān)。