As is vividly betrayed in the drawing above, a newly-married couple are hugging each other happily and their parents are holding a huge amount of debt hardly. In addition, there is one sentence "Establish their own happiness on the basis of parents' hardship", which highlights that nowadays many young people are seeking for their own happiness despite their parents' feeling. So what causes this phenomenon? From my point of view, there are mainly two reasons. First, with the promotion of "family planning", many families only have one child, which makes the child so spoilt that they are used to having the high quality life. Second, many children have the psychology of comparing mentality, which makes them have the wish to hold a luxurious wedding ceremony.In order to solve this problem, children should develop the virtue of thrifty. A marriage is a lifetime matter, and it won’t be changed by luxurious wedding ceremony. So they should refuse luxurious wedding ceremony. Furthermore, parents should not spoil their children by satisfy all their demands. I think under the joint effort of parents and children, the ethos of keeping up with the peer comparison will be decreased significantly.
上面的圖畫生動的描繪出一對新婚夫婦快樂地互相擁抱,但是他們的父母卻背負巨額債務。此外,有一句話“建立在他們對父母的痛苦”的基礎上的自己的幸福,它點出現(xiàn)在很多年輕人都在尋找自己的幸福,盡管他們的父母為此付出許多。那么是什么導致了這種現(xiàn)象?從我的角度來看,主要有兩方面的原因。首先,因為“計劃生育”的推廣,很多家庭只有一個孩子,把孩子給寵壞了,他們習慣高質(zhì)量的生活。第二,許多孩子都有攀比心理,這讓他們希望舉行一個豪華的婚禮儀式。為了解決這個問題,要培養(yǎng)孩子節(jié)儉的美德?;橐鍪且惠呑拥氖虑?,它不會被豪華的婚禮改變。所以他們應該拒絕奢華的婚禮儀式。此外,家長不應該溺愛他們的孩子,并且無限制地滿足他們所有的要求。我認為在父母和孩子的共同努力下,與同齡人攀比的現(xiàn)象將顯著下降。