人們總是認為,嬰兒對世界一無所知,所以他們不知道自己在做什么,他們的錯誤是可以得到原諒的。事實上,根據(jù)一項新的研究,孩子有自己的意識,他們通過觀察父母的反應(yīng)來做判斷。
For example, if the baby wants to buy the toy, he will point to the toy or just stand there. Most parents will realize the baby’s need and satisfy him. So the baby has learned that if they do the same thing, they can get what they want. The worse thing is that when the baby makes mistakes, the parents think it is natural for him and won’t correct them. Then the baby will become naughty.
舉個例子,如果孩子想買玩具,他就會指著玩具或者只是站在那里,大多數(shù)父母就會意識到孩子的需要,從而去滿足他。因此,嬰兒已經(jīng)認識到如果他們做同樣的事情就可以得到他們想要的東西。更糟的是,當孩子犯了錯誤時,父母認為這是理所當然的,所以不去糾正錯誤。然后孩子就會變得淘氣。
My aunt’s baby is the example. My aunt tell me that she thinks the baby is too small and there is no need to take it serious. So she feels tired to look after the baby. But there is a mother who lives next to her. My aunt tells me that her neighbour’s baby behaves well, later I find that the mother always corrects her baby’s mistake.
我姑姑的孩子就一個例子。我的阿姨告訴我,她覺得孩子太小了,沒有必要去認真計較。所以她覺得照看嬰兒很累。但她家隔壁也有一位母親。我姑姑告訴我,她鄰居的孩子就表現(xiàn)得很好,后來我發(fā)現(xiàn),那位母親總是糾正孩子的錯誤。
The parents should realize the importance of baby’s recognition, so that they can better educate the baby.
父母應(yīng)該意識到寶寶認知的重要性,這樣他們就可以更好的教育孩子。