富養(yǎng)與窮養(yǎng) Raised In Rich and Poor Way

In China, most people believe that boys should be raised in the poor way while the girls should be in the rich way. The poor way means to let the kids do things by their own and their parents won’t be satisfied them all the time. So the rich way means to take care of the kids carefully and pay attention to them. No matter which way the parents carry on, I think it is not the suitable way to raise a kid. Whether the kid is a boy or a girl, they need to be nursed both in the rich and poor ways. It is the parents’ duty to take care of their kids, so they should be patient and kind. But when the children make mistakes, parents should not spoiled them. Kids must be educated and corrected their wrong action. Only in this way the kids can be taught well.

在中國，大多數(shù)人認(rèn)為男孩應(yīng)該窮養(yǎng)而女孩子要富養(yǎng)。窮養(yǎng)的方式就是讓孩子自己動手做事而且父母通常都會不太滿意。因此富養(yǎng)的方式則是細心照顧孩子，注意力也放在他們身上。不管父母用什么方式來撫養(yǎng)小孩，我覺得都是不合適的。無論是男孩還是女孩，他們都需要窮養(yǎng)和富養(yǎng)相結(jié)合的方式。父母有責(zé)任照顧他們的孩子，他們應(yīng)該要有耐心、和藹。但是，當(dāng)孩子犯錯時，父母不應(yīng)該溺愛他們。孩子們必須得到教育，糾正錯誤行為。只有這樣，孩子們才可以教育得更好。