傷害孩子的五句話 Five Sentences to Hurt Children

It is said that parents are the children’s best teachers. Indeed, childen spend most of the time to stay with parents, so they imitate their habits. So the good parents have their ways to educate children, while some hurt their kids by saying the following sentences. Such the following five.

據(jù)說(shuō)，父母是孩子最好的老師。事實(shí)上，孩子大部分的時(shí)間都和父母在一起，所以他們會(huì)潛移默化的受父母一些習(xí)慣的影響。所以，優(yōu)秀的父母有他們的方式來(lái)教育孩子，而有一些父母則通過(guò)說(shuō)一下的話語(yǔ)來(lái)傷害他們的孩子。比如以下五點(diǎn)。

1. You Idiot

你這個(gè)白癡

Some parents will say it when the children make mistakes. Acutally, the words of inspiration can work much better.

有些父母在孩子犯錯(cuò)誤的時(shí)候會(huì)說(shuō)這句話。事實(shí)上，鼓勵(lì)性的話語(yǔ)對(duì)孩子更能起作用。

2. Shut up

閉嘴

A rude parent will call their children to be quiet when the kids are making noise or giving their opinion. A good listener is much better than a judger. So let the children give their words.

粗魯?shù)母改冈诤⒆又圃煸胍艋蚪o出自己的觀點(diǎn)的時(shí)候會(huì)叫他們閉嘴。一個(gè)好的傾聽(tīng)者會(huì)比專制者要好得多。所以讓孩子們發(fā)表自己的意見(jiàn)。

3. I will never supervise you

我再也不管你了

Parents like to force their kids to do what they want and treat the kids’ doing as none sense. Once they are angry, they will hurt the kids by saying of leaving them alone. The kids should be respected.

父母喜歡強(qiáng)迫他們的孩子做他們自己想做的事，視孩子所做的為毫無(wú)意義。一旦他們感到憤怒，他們會(huì)說(shuō)一些傷害孩子們的話，留下他們自己一個(gè)人。孩子們應(yīng)該得到尊重。

4. When you get the full mark, I will buy…

你考得滿分，我就買…

Most parents like to encourage their kids with full mark. Actually, the meaning of study is to get improvement instead of being the study machine.

大多數(shù)父母喜歡用考滿分的話來(lái)鼓勵(lì)孩子。實(shí)際上，學(xué)習(xí)的意義在于提高自我，而不是變成學(xué)習(xí)機(jī)器。

5. You only know how to play

你就只知道玩

It is kids’nature and right to play, so parents should not force them to focus on study all the time.

玩是孩子的天性，所以父母不應(yīng)該強(qiáng)迫他們只沉迷于學(xué)習(xí)。