卡卡課堂 1380 成為掌握自己命運(yùn)的獨(dú)立思考者

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作為父母，很多人都會(huì)拼勁全力為孩子們提供自己最好的條件。
從學(xué)區(qū)房到各種補(bǔ)習(xí)班，但是智慧的父母，除了盡自己可能為孩子提供充足的物質(zhì)條件之外，
更多會(huì)從自身做起，言傳身教，先把自己活明白了，孩子在這種耳濡目染的環(huán)境中，
自然會(huì)受到父母的熏陶，從而在很小的時(shí)候，也能不斷精進(jìn)自己的人生。
如何向自己的下一代傳遞人生的智慧，今天分享的這篇美文適合每一位父母，每一個(gè)孩子仔細(xì)品讀。
今天我們節(jié)選了《李開復(fù)給女兒的信》的片段，這封信比較長，但卻可以看到李開復(fù)在給女兒的文字中，充滿了愛和人生的智慧。
文章比較長，今天我們先節(jié)選學(xué)習(xí)第三部分內(nèi)容。


李開復(fù)，1961年12月3日出生于臺(tái)灣省新北市中和區(qū)，祖籍四川成都，作家、企業(yè)家、創(chuàng)新工場董事長兼首席執(zhí)行官、信息產(chǎn)業(yè)經(jīng)理人，畢業(yè)于卡內(nèi)基梅隆大學(xué)，獲計(jì)算機(jī)科學(xué)博士學(xué)位，后擔(dān)任副教授。2009年9月，從谷歌離職后創(chuàng)辦創(chuàng)新工場，并任董事長兼首席執(zhí)行官。2013年9月，李開復(fù)對(duì)外宣布罹患淋巴癌。2015年11月6日，由李開復(fù)創(chuàng)辦的創(chuàng)新工場（北京）企業(yè)管理股份有限公司于今日在股轉(zhuǎn)系統(tǒng)披露公開轉(zhuǎn)讓說明書，正式?jīng)_刺新三板。 2018年12月，入選“中國改革開放海歸40年40人”榜單。 2021年2月23日，北京邁格威科技有限公司發(fā)生工商變更，李開復(fù)退出董事。




Do keep your high school friends, and stay connected to them, but do not use them as substitutes for college friendship, and do not spend too much time with them, because that would eat into your time to make new friends.
要和你高中時(shí)代的朋友保持聯(lián)系，但是不要用他們來取代大學(xué)的友誼，也不要把全部的時(shí)間都花在老朋友身上，因?yàn)槟菢幽憔蜁?huì)失去交新朋友的機(jī)會(huì)了。




Start planning for your summers early – what would you like to do? Where would you like to live? What would you like to learn? What have you learned in college that might change your mind? I think your plan of studying fashion is good, and you should decide where you want to be, and get into the right courses. We of course hope you come back to Beijing, but you should go where you think is best for you.


你還要早點(diǎn)開始規(guī)劃你的暑假——你想做什么？你想呆在哪兒？你想學(xué)點(diǎn)什么？你在大學(xué)里學(xué)習(xí)是否會(huì)讓你有新的打算？我覺得你學(xué)習(xí)藝術(shù)設(shè)計(jì)的計(jì)劃很不錯(cuò)，你應(yīng)該想好你該去哪兒學(xué)習(xí)相應(yīng)的課程。我們當(dāng)然希望你回到北京，但是最終的決定是你的。


Whether it is summer-planning, or coursework planning, or picking a major, or managing your time, you should take control of your life. In the past, I have helped you quite a bit, whether it is in college application, designing your extracurricular activities, or picking the initial coursework. I will always be there for you, but the time has come for you to be in the driver’s seat – this is your life, and you need to be in control. I will always remember the exhilarating feeling in my life –that I got to decide to skip kindergarten, that I got to decide to change to computer science major, that I got to decide to leave academia for Apple, that I got to decide to go to China, that I got to decide to go to Google, and most recently, that I got to decide to start my own business. Being able to decide means you get to live the life that you want to. Life is too short to live the life others do or others want you. Being in control feels great. Try it, and you’ll love it!


不管是暑假計(jì)劃，功課規(guī)劃，抑或是選專業(yè)，管理時(shí)間，你都應(yīng)該負(fù)責(zé)你的人生。過去不管是申請(qǐng)學(xué)校、設(shè)計(jì)課外活動(dòng)或者選擇最初的課程，我都從旁幫助了你不少。以后，我仍然會(huì)一直站你身旁，但是現(xiàn)在是你自己掌舵的時(shí)候了。我常常記起我生命中那些令人振奮的時(shí)刻——在幼兒園決定跳級(jí)，決定轉(zhuǎn)到計(jì)算機(jī)科學(xué)專業(yè)，決定離開學(xué)術(shù)界選擇Apple，決定回中國，決定選擇Google，乃至最近選擇創(chuàng)辦我的新公司。有能力進(jìn)行選擇意味著你會(huì)過上自己想要的生活。生命太短暫了，你不能過別人想要你過的生活。掌控自己的生命是很棒的感覺，試試吧，你會(huì)愛上它的！


I told your mom I’m writing this letter, and asked what she wanted me to say. She thought and said: “just ask her to take care of herself.” Simple but deeply caring– that is how your mother is, and that is why you love her so much. In this simple sentence is her hope that you will become independent in the way you take care of yourself – that you will remember to take your medicine, that you will get enough sleep, that you will have a balanced diet, that you will get some exercise, and that you will go see a doctor whenever you don’t feel good. An ancient Chinese proverb says that the most important thing to be nice to your parents is to take care of yourself. This is because your parents love you so much, and that if you are well, they will have comfort. You will understand this one day when you become a mother. But in the meantime, please listen to your mother and take care of yourself.


我告訴你媽媽我在寫這封信，問她有什么想對(duì)你說的，她想了想，說“讓她好好照顧自己”，很簡單卻飽含著真切的關(guān)心——這一向是你深愛的媽媽的特點(diǎn)。這短短的一句話，是她想提醒你很多事情，比如要記得自己按時(shí)吃藥，好好睡覺，保持健康的飲食，適量運(yùn)動(dòng)，不舒服的時(shí)候要去看醫(yī)生等等。中國有句古語，說“身體發(fā)膚，受之父母，不敢毀傷，孝之始也”。這句話的意思用比較新的方法詮釋就是說：父母最愛的就是你，所以照顧好自己就是孝順最好的方法。當(dāng)你成為母親的那天，你就會(huì)理解這些。在那天之前，聽媽媽的，你一定要好好照顧自己。


College is the four years where you have:


? the greatest amount of free time


? the first chance to be independent


? the most flexibility to change


? the lowest risk for making mistakes


So please treasure your college years – make the best of your free time, become an independent thinker in control of your destiny, evolve yourself into a bi-cultural talent, be bold to experiment, learn and grow through your successes and challenges.


大學(xué)是你自由時(shí)間最多的四年。


大學(xué)是你第一次學(xué)會(huì)獨(dú)立的四年。


大學(xué)是可塑性最強(qiáng)的四年。


大學(xué)是犯錯(cuò)代價(jià)最低的四年。


所以，珍惜你的大學(xué)時(shí)光吧，好好利用你的空閑時(shí)間，成為掌握自己命運(yùn)的獨(dú)立思考者，發(fā)展自己的多元化才能，大膽地去嘗試，通過不斷的成功和挑戰(zhàn)來學(xué)習(xí)和成長，成為融匯中西的人才。


When I faced the greatest challenge and opportunity in my life in 2005, you gave me a big hug and said “bonne chance”， which means “good luck” and “good courage”. Now I do the same for you. Bonne chance, my angel and princess. May Columbia become the happiest four years in your life, and may you blossom into just what you dream to be.


當(dāng)我在2005年面對(duì)人生最大的挑戰(zhàn)時(shí)，你給了我大大的擁抱，還跟我說了一句法語“bonne chance”。這句話代表“祝你勇敢，祝你好運(yùn)！”現(xiàn)在，我也想跟你說同樣的話，bonne chance，我的天使和公主，希望哥倫比亞成為你一生中最快樂的四年，希望你成為你夢(mèng)想成為的人！