雙語(yǔ)美文：關(guān)于人生的16個(gè)感悟

With each passing year, I like to take to time to reflect on the lessons that I’ve learned. These are the things that I’ve learned about life as I turn 28....

每過(guò)一年我都會(huì)回想過(guò)去一年所發(fā)生的事，并做下總結(jié)。以下是我在28歲時(shí)體會(huì)到的一些人生感悟。

1. Take accountability for your mistakes. If you find yourself blaming others, look for your part and take ownership.

1. 自己犯的錯(cuò)要承擔(dān)責(zé)任。在責(zé)怪別人之前先找找自己的過(guò)錯(cuò)，承擔(dān)責(zé)任。

2. Sometimes life puts you through circumstances that show you who’s really there for you. Focus on the ones who are there and who love and support you, rather than the ones that aren’t, or can’t be.

2. 有時(shí)候生活會(huì)告訴你誰(shuí)才是真正在乎你的人。把目光放在那些在乎你、愛(ài)你、支持你的人身上，不要在意那些不關(guān)心你也不會(huì)關(guān)心你的人身上。

3. Listening is so much more important than talking. You already know what you know when you open your mouth. When you open your ears that’s when true learning takes place.

3. 傾聽(tīng)比說(shuō)話重要得多。用嘴巴說(shuō)的時(shí)候你知道的不會(huì)增加，用耳朵聽(tīng)的時(shí)候你就真的是在學(xué)習(xí)。

4. Our energy is one of our greatest resources, so it’s important to be careful who surrounds us. It’s okay to close the door on negativity. You’ll soon see how this preserves your positive energy.

4. 能量是我們最重要的資源，所以我們要留意身邊的人。把負(fù)能量拒之門(mén)外沒(méi)有錯(cuò)，你很快就會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)這會(huì)保護(hù)你的正能量。

5. Travel makes you richer - even if it’s not far from home. Opening your eyes to the world and all the wonders in it will enrich the quality of your life.

5. 旅行會(huì)使你更富有，就算只是去附近的地方旅行。放眼世界，世界的精彩會(huì)讓你的生活變得美好充實(shí)。

6. The older we get, the faster time goes: the only way to slow it down is to be grateful for each moment.

6. 年齡越大，時(shí)間走得越快。放慢時(shí)間的唯一方法就是感激每一刻。

7. Be patient with the world around you, give others the benefit of the doubt, for you are the one who suffers most when you’re irritated.

7. 耐心對(duì)待身邊的人和事，要先假定他人沒(méi)有錯(cuò)，因?yàn)槟阋巧鷼?，最難受的還是你自己。

8. Comparing yourself to others is the fastest way to put limitations on your potential. Stick with competing with the person you were yesterday.

8. 在你拿自己和他人比較的時(shí)候，你就限制了自己的潛力。堅(jiān)持和昨天的自己競(jìng)爭(zhēng)吧。

9. It is inevitable that bad things will happen, to you or to someone equally undeserving of pain. These moments are meant to measure our reactions to the event, and that’s where you’ll see how strength is truly defined.

9. 不管是在你身上還是別人身上，不管應(yīng)不應(yīng)該，不愉快的事情總會(huì)發(fā)生。這樣的事情是用來(lái)衡量我們的應(yīng)對(duì)能力的，從中你會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)什么是真正的強(qiáng)大。

10. Support your friends dreams and encourage them whenever you can. An added benefit is that you’ll be happy to be surrounded by people who love their lives.

10. 盡你所能支持朋友的夢(mèng)想，鼓勵(lì)他們。這樣有一個(gè)好處，就是你身邊會(huì)充滿熱愛(ài)自己生活的人。

11. If you want things to change, start by changing yourself.

11. 如果你想要讓事情有所改變，先改變自己。

12. If you genuinely don’t want to do something or go somewhere, be honest. No one wants to spend time with you when you wish you were somewhere else.

12. 如果你確實(shí)不想做某件事或者去某個(gè)地方，坦白拒絕吧。如果你的心在別處，沒(méi)人會(huì)想花時(shí)間和你在一起的。

13. Follow your dreams. Don’t be afraid of them...or what other people think of them. Give it all you’ve got and you can never fail.

13. 追隨你的夢(mèng)想，不要懼怕夢(mèng)想，不要懼怕別人的看法。全力以赴，你就不會(huì)失敗。

14. Tell people your dreams, as often as they are willing to listen. Goals become more tangible when we say them aloud.

14. 把你的夢(mèng)想告訴別人，只要?jiǎng)e人沒(méi)有厭煩，說(shuō)得越多越好。當(dāng)你把夢(mèng)想大聲說(shuō)出來(lái)，目標(biāo)就會(huì)變得切實(shí)明確。

15. Align yourself with like-minded people, people who motivate and inspire you, and those that make you feel genuinely happy when they are around. Treat them with love and respect.

15. 和志趣相投的人做朋友，和會(huì)激勵(lì)你、啟發(fā)你的人做朋友，和在你身邊會(huì)讓你感到高興的人做朋友。要用愛(ài)和敬意對(duì)待他們。

16. Be a role model: let your actions and your words be unified. Be someone you’d look up to.

16. 成為楷模，言行一致，成為一個(gè)自己敬仰的人。