華爾街的賺錢經(jīng) 第19期:職業(yè)目標(biāo) 我為你規(guī)劃(2)
...Or What You Don't Want
或者不想要的
It's hard to say what you want when you're not sure of it. She points out, "The reason certain people can't answer that question is that it's too overwhelming. But most folks can say what they DON'T want. They can say, "' don't want to work for a large company,' or 'I don't want a lengthy commute.' The flip side of what you don't want is what you do want".
當(dāng)人們不確定的時(shí)候去說想要什么就會(huì)很難。她指出，“某些人回答不出這個(gè)問題的原因是它太‘(遠(yuǎn))大’。但是多數(shù)人都能說出自己不想要什么。他們會(huì)說：‘我不想為大企業(yè)工作’或‘我不想上班路途長(zhǎng)’，那么不想要的反面就是你想要的了”。
Fight the Fear...
克服恐懼心
If creating a vision is so simple, why don't more people do it? Brown-Volkman reveals, "People are lost and afraid now, and they're scared to say what they want because they're afraid of not getting it. When it comes to vision, sometimes people won't even say what they want unless they know they will get there or how to get there. But you have to create what you want first and then live into it. It's like a declaration. It takes courage-and a bit of faith."
如果說設(shè)定一個(gè)遠(yuǎn)景是一件容易的事情，那為什么沒有更多人去做呢?博朗·沃克曼說，“人們現(xiàn)在迷茫了、害怕了，他們害怕說自己想要什么，因?yàn)閾?dān)心自己得不到。說到遠(yuǎn)景，有時(shí)候，甚至人們除非一定能實(shí)現(xiàn)，否則都不愿意說出想要什么。但是你首先要?jiǎng)?chuàng)建一個(gè)你想要的，然后融于其中。這就像一次宣言。這需要勇氣一一外加一點(diǎn)點(diǎn)信念。”
