Quora精選：英國人為什么總愛道歉？

Why do the British say 'sorry' so much?英國人為什么那么愿意說“對(duì)不起”？

 

獲得16.6k好評(píng)的回答@Lee Ballentine：

It means something different over there. In the United States, “sorry” has a few widely used meanings.“sorry”這個(gè)詞在英國的含義和別處完全不一樣。在美國，“sorry”這個(gè)詞有幾個(gè)廣泛應(yīng)用的含義：(1) As a form of apology. I’m sorry I kicked your shin.（1）用來道歉。很抱歉踢到你腿了。(2) As an expression of sympathy. I’m sorry for your loss.（2）表達(dá)同情。對(duì)你的損失我深感遺憾。(3) As an adjective meaning inadequate. You are a sorry specimen.（3）形容“不合適”。你這個(gè)家伙不合適。To these, the British add說到這兒，英國人要補(bǔ)充一句(4) As an interjection meaning “I didn’t hear you, could you repeat that?”（4）用作插入語“我沒聽清，你能重復(fù)一下嗎？”A: "Lie nuff cacophany?"“謊話連篇？”B: "Sorry?"“抱歉能再說一遍嗎？”A: "I said, would you like another cup of coffee?"“我說，你再來杯咖啡嗎？”

 

獲得70好評(píng)的回答@Nicholas Hayes：

I’m terribly sorry but we’re just doing it to be polite. Much like Japan, when your country develops it’s sense of manners under a system where armed warriors are the norm (knights/samurai), you tend to establish patterns of speech designed to reduce aggression.我特別抱歉我們這樣說只是為了表達(dá)禮貌。這一點(diǎn)跟日本人很像，當(dāng)你們國家的禮儀是在武裝力量常規(guī)化的體制（騎士和武士）下發(fā)展出來的話，你們就傾向于利用語言來降低攻擊性。At this point the swords are more or less gone, but the speech patterns are traditional and cultural so we carry on carrying on.現(xiàn)在武力幾乎已經(jīng)消失了，但語言模式仍保留著傳統(tǒng)和文化特點(diǎn)，所以我們繼續(xù)說著“sorry”。Sorry if that doesn’t illuminate it for you.如果沒解釋明白我深感抱歉。

 

（翻譯：菲菲）

(來源:滬江)