27. Don't Spoil the Children 不要溺愛(ài)孩子
For many years, the "one couple, one child" policy has been carried out in China and it has proved to be an effective way to control the rapid growth of the population in our country. However, the advantages are often accompanied by some disadvantages. For example, the only child becomes the center or even the "emperor" of the family. In order to provide a bright future for the only child, many parents or grand parents show too much love to them. They do almost everything for their children to wipe away any hardship from them.
“一對(duì)夫婦,一個(gè)孩子”的政策在中國(guó)已實(shí)施多年,并且被認(rèn)為是控制我國(guó)人口快速增長(zhǎng)的有效措施。然而,弊端也隨之而來(lái),獨(dú)生子成為了家庭的中心甚至是“小皇帝”。為了使自己的獨(dú)生子有一個(gè)美好的未來(lái),許多父母和祖父母給予了他們太多的愛(ài),他們甚至愿為孩子做任何事情而惟恐他們承受一些艱辛。
Yet, when the spoiled children grow up, many of them greatly disappoint their parents. Some of them even commit crimes. Who should be blamed? I think parents should teach their children to bear hardships and tell them the correct way to communicate with others. Only by correct education, can the children be useful in the future.
然而,當(dāng)這些被寵壞的孩子長(zhǎng)大以后,他們中的許多都會(huì)使父母失望,有的甚至還會(huì)走上犯罪道路。這到底是誰(shuí)的錯(cuò)?我認(rèn)為應(yīng)該教會(huì)孩子去吃苦,并且告訴他們?nèi)绾魏退苏_相處,只有通過(guò)正確的教育,孩子在將來(lái)才會(huì)變得有用。