Look Out for No.2
There is a powerful healing energy that emanates from loving.Lasting love can learn to sense it,send it and make it grow. We are energized by love if we put our energy into loving.
愛(ài)能釋放出一種強(qiáng)大到起治療康復(fù)作用的能量。持續(xù)長(zhǎng)久的愛(ài)能讓人學(xué)會(huì)去感知,釋放并加強(qiáng)增長(zhǎng)這種能量。如果我們付出能量給愛(ài),我們就會(huì)體驗(yàn)到這種能量使我們充滿激情而活力四射。
Bad energy springs from conflicts that arise when two egos collide. When I watch husbands and wives argue with each other, I want to shout:"Grow up,stop fighting,start loving!"It is bettter to learn how to love than how to fight. Dont't try to win in your marriage, win for your marriage.
相反的惡能也會(huì)從兩個(gè)自私自我的人的爭(zhēng)吵和矛盾沖突中迸發(fā)出來(lái)。每當(dāng)我看到夫妻彼此爭(zhēng)吵不休時(shí)僅不住想大吼:“成熟點(diǎn)吧,別再鬧了,開(kāi)始愛(ài)吧!”學(xué)會(huì)愛(ài)吧而不是學(xué)會(huì)怎樣去爭(zhēng)論和爭(zhēng)吵。千萬(wàn)別努力去爭(zhēng)取成為你婚姻中贏的一方。而要努力成為為你婚姻而努力的贏家。
Marriage is designed primarily for giving rather than taking, It is meant to be a permanent union of two unselfish people. As one husband told me,"The old saying was "Look out for Number one",But we 've learned to "Look out for Number two."If you fight for yourself,only you can win. When you fight for your marriage, you both win.
婚姻原本是給予而不是索取,它意味著兩個(gè)沒(méi)有私心的人永久的聯(lián)合。有個(gè)做丈夫的曾對(duì)我說(shuō):“俗話說(shuō)人都要先為自己著想,”但是我們學(xué)會(huì)了“為他人著想照顧愛(ài)人的利益”。如果你爭(zhēng)斗為了你自己,你只贏了愛(ài)人,而你斗爭(zhēng)為了你的婚姻,你倆才都是贏家。