給畢業(yè)迷茫期的你，幾點(diǎn)人生建議

When you graduate, taking your first steps out of College or University into the big, bad world is, how to put it...a little bit messed up.

當(dāng)你畢業(yè)的時(shí)候，走出大學(xué)的第一步，踏入這個(gè)又大又壞的世界，該怎么說(shuō)呢?有點(diǎn)亂。

In the post-graduation transition, it's easy to feel lost and confused.

剛剛畢業(yè)后的過(guò)渡期，很容易感到迷茫和困惑。

So here's how to remain confident and trust yourself, even in the middle of all the uncertainty and change that this brave new world brings.

所以，即使在這個(gè)美麗新世界帶來(lái)的所有不確定性和變化中，也要保持自信和信任自己。

1. Stop feeling like you should have all the answers

1. 不要覺(jué)得你應(yīng)該知道所有的答案

Uncertainty is the way things are, and trying to fight is like trying to fight an angry bear with a wet fish. It’ll just leave you exhausted, scared and broken. So relax a little. Understand that uncertainty is natural, and know that doing your best is plenty good enough as a response.

事情本來(lái)就是不確定的，企圖掙脫這個(gè)事實(shí)就好比用濕魚(yú)打一只憤怒的熊。它只會(huì)讓你筋疲力盡、害怕和心碎。所以放松點(diǎn)。明白不確定是正常的，并且知道作為一種回應(yīng)，盡你最大的努力就足夠了。

2. Prioritise play over success

2. 把開(kāi)心看得比成功更重要

Extrinsic success is easy, cheap even. So it's through play—through engaging with the things that make you feel joy or connected and experience more success than fitting in with expectations will ever give you.

外在的成功很容易，甚至說(shuō)很廉價(jià)。因此，只有通過(guò)開(kāi)心——通過(guò)參與那些讓你感到快樂(lè)或與他人建立聯(lián)系的事情，才能獲得比滿足期望更大的成功。

3. Stop comparing

3.停止比較

Today, every time you compare yourself to someone else, you threaten to undermine your self and your efficacy, or inflate your ego. Comparison is irrelevant. The only thing that's relevant is your ability to approach a decision.

如今，每當(dāng)你拿自己和別人比較時(shí)，你就會(huì)威脅到自己和自己的效率，或者相反的去自我膨脹。要知道，比較跟你沒(méi)有關(guān)系。唯一與你有關(guān)的是你的決策能力。