2019年，管理好自己的工作、金錢、愛情

2019 feels impossible to tackle in your current state.

2019年都來(lái)了，可你還是對(duì)目前的狀態(tài)感到不滿。

So whether it’s a new job or new relationship, our crack team of experts explain how to win the next 12 months.

因此，無(wú)論是新工作還是新感情，我們的專家團(tuán)隊(duì)將告訴你如何贏得未來(lái)12個(gè)月。

Your job

你的工作

Ask for advice and tell your boss you want to progress - it could lead to more opportunities without having to leave.

向你的老板尋求建議，并告訴他你想獲得進(jìn)步，這可以給你帶來(lái)更多的機(jī)會(huì)，不必辭職啦。

Put the hours in. If you want to get a new job, it takes time. Do research in your lunch-break, get your CV in order, work in the evenings.

花時(shí)間下功夫。如果你想找一份新工作，需要時(shí)間。 在午休時(shí)間做研究，完成好簡(jiǎn)歷，晚上工作。

DON’T apply for jobs if you haven’t got the skills or experience - you’re wasting your time.

如果你沒有相關(guān)技能或經(jīng)驗(yàn)，請(qǐng)不要申請(qǐng)這份工作，這簡(jiǎn)直就是浪費(fèi)時(shí)間。

DON’T just say things like: "I’m a great team player" - prove it. Use your CV to give examples of why you’re a perfect match.

別只會(huì)說“我是一個(gè)很好的團(tuán)隊(duì)合作者”，拿出證明來(lái)。 在簡(jiǎn)歷里舉例說明你為什么是這份工作的合適人選。

Pick a few jobs you really want and spend time making great applications. Don’t just fire off loads without thought.

選一些你真正想做的工作，花時(shí)間做幾份很棒的簡(jiǎn)歷投出去。 不要想都不想就海投。

Your cash

你的錢

You wish one-click ordering had never been invented.

你真希望一鍵式訂購(gòu)從未被發(fā)明出來(lái)。

So it’s back to basics.

回到基本吧。

"When people are exercising, they count the calories in and out - your finances are exactly the same," says Colin McDermott who runs the personal finance blog dumbfunded.co.uk.

“當(dāng)人們鍛煉身體時(shí)，他們會(huì)計(jì)算攝入攝出的卡路里 - 你的財(cái)務(wù)也是一樣的，”撰寫博客dumbfunded.co.uk的個(gè)人財(cái)務(wù)博主科林·麥克德莫特說。

He says it’s never been easier to keep track of how much you’re spending, thanks to new tech.

他說，多虧了新技術(shù)，追蹤你的消費(fèi)狀況已經(jīng)變得前所未有的簡(jiǎn)單。

Your love life

你的愛情生活

Normalise the situation, don’t jump to conclusions.

平常心對(duì)待情況，不要妄下結(jié)論。

Give yourself time," suggests relationship therapist Clare Prendergast. "Get back in a routine, do some exercise, start eating vegetables again."

“給自己一點(diǎn)時(shí)間，”情感治療師克萊爾·普倫德加斯特建議道。 “回到日常生活中，做一些運(yùn)動(dòng)，吃些蔬菜。”

If things in your relationship still don’t feel right, maybe it’s time to have a chat.

如果你們情感關(guān)系有什么不對(duì)勁，也許是時(shí)候該聊聊了。

"Don’t just pour out all of your anxieties. Talk about what this relationship means for you, where do you see this going?"

“不要只是傾訴你所有的焦慮。談?wù)勥@種關(guān)系對(duì)你來(lái)說意味著什么，你認(rèn)為這段關(guān)系可以如何走下去?”