超實(shí)用的心理學(xué)知識,幾乎是催眠級別

There is no shortage of books and psychology articles with tips on how to use body language to achieve success. But let’s be real – no language trick will make your date instantly fall in love with you, or your dream company hire you. However, there are some psychological tricks that are so easy, you can use them every day. What can you gain from these tips? Well, you could appear more confident than you really are and that is a great start.

市面上教人如何用身體語言獲得成功的書和心理學(xué)文章層出不窮。然而現(xiàn)實(shí)很殘酷——不會有什么樣的身體語言能讓你的約會對象瞬間愛上你，也不會又什么樣的身體語言能讓你被自己夢寐以求的公司雇傭。不過，有些心理學(xué)技巧卻十分簡單，你每天都可以加以運(yùn)用。這些小技巧能讓你收獲什么?首先，你會看上去比實(shí)際上更加自信。這就是一個(gè)很好的開端了。

One internet user compiled a list of fun and easy psychological tricks that you can try for yourself. Take a look at these twenty short tips below and tell us in the comments whether you’ve used any of them before.

一位網(wǎng)友集合了一組有趣而簡單的心理學(xué)小技巧，你不妨一試。看看下面這些簡短的小貼士，在評論里告訴我們你是否運(yùn)用過其中一二?

1. Learn Things With Ease

輕松學(xué)習(xí)新知識

The best way to learn and remember something is by trying to explain it to someone else. We tend to simplify things when explaining them to others, therefore this might help you to concentrate on the most important bits of information that you wish to remember.

學(xué)習(xí)并記住某種知識最好的辦法就是嘗試想其他人解釋這些知識。當(dāng)我們向其他人解釋某一事物的時(shí)候，我們往往會將其簡化，因而幫助你將注意力集中在需要識記的部分。

2.Find Out Who's Watching You

找出正在偷窺你的人

You know that feeling when you sense that someone is watching you, but you're not really sure? Try yawning and then look at the person whom you suspect of watching. If they yawn too - then you know the person was watching you, as yawning is contagious.

你肯定明白這種感覺——你知道有人在偷窺你，但是你又不能確定。試著打個(gè)哈欠，然后看看那個(gè)你懷疑正盯著你的人。如果他也打了個(gè)哈欠——你就能確定那個(gè)人正看著你了，因?yàn)榇蚬肥菚魅镜摹?/p>

3.Make Them Go Easier On You

讓別人對你網(wǎng)開一面

If you predict that your boss is going to go off on you in a meeting, sit close to them. It is intensely uncomfortable to talk badly about someone and be aggressive when they are sitting right next to you. The result? The person that intended to bad-mouth you will take it easier.

如果你預(yù)感到你的老板會在開會的時(shí)候?qū)δ愦蟀l(fā)脾氣，就坐在他附近。當(dāng)別人坐在你身邊的時(shí)候，如果他想要斥責(zé)你或?qū)δ銉窗桶偷?，他們就會感到?qiáng)烈的不適感。結(jié)果呢?那個(gè)準(zhǔn)備兇你的人會對你網(wǎng)開一面。

4.Do A Little Experiment

來做個(gè)小實(shí)驗(yàn)

This is a fun little experiment to try - when you are having a conversation with someone, pick out one word that they say. Each time that the person says that word (or something close toit), just nod or give some other type of positive affirmation. Now watch your conversation partner start saying the word all the time.

你可以試著做一個(gè)小實(shí)驗(yàn)——當(dāng)你和別人交談的時(shí)候，選出一個(gè)他們說過的詞。每次那個(gè)人說出這個(gè)詞(或者說出與這個(gè)詞類似的詞)，你就點(diǎn)頭或者用其他方式予以肯定，然后你就等著你的談話對象不停的說這個(gè)詞吧!

5.Stop Procrastinating

拒絕拖延癥

If you're a procrastinator and have important tasks coming up that can't be put off – try thinking about the task before you sleep. It will force your brain to act on them mentally and your brain will start to draw a pathway to the completion of the task.

如果你有拖延癥，又必須面對重要的任務(wù)，容不得拖延——試著在臨睡前想想這個(gè)任務(wù)，這會迫使你的大腦開始在意識中執(zhí)行這一任務(wù)，你的大腦會規(guī)劃出一條如何完成這項(xiàng)任務(wù)的意識路線。

6.Spot Office Romances

發(fā)現(xiàn)辦公室戀情

While laughing in a group of people, we tend to glance at the person that we feel closest to. This can be an easy way to spot any office romances going on.

當(dāng)我們與同事聚成一團(tuán)有說有笑的時(shí)候，我們會習(xí)慣性的看向我們覺得親近的人。通過這種簡單的方法，我們就能偵查到辦公室里的秘密戀情了。

7.Make Them Agree With You

讓別人贊同你

If you want someone to agree with you when asking a question, slightly nod your head while doing so. In psychology it's called mirroring. It means that people will be more likely to agree with you if you are sending positive affirmation signals (in this case, nodding).

如果你想讓別人對你提出的問題給以肯定的答復(fù)，可以在提問題的時(shí)候微微點(diǎn)頭。在心理學(xué)上這叫做鏡像效應(yīng)。意思是，當(dāng)你發(fā)出積極強(qiáng)化的信號(在這個(gè)例子中，即點(diǎn)頭)時(shí)，對方會更傾向于認(rèn)同你。

8.Get The Information You Need

獲取你所需要的信息

If you want somebody to open up to you, ask them a question and if the person answers it only partially - remain silent and keep eye contact for a little while. This will pressure the person into talking - only beware that some people might get irritated .

如果你想讓某人對你知無不言，可以試著問他們一個(gè)問題，如果對方的回答閃爍其詞——保持沉默，與對方進(jìn)行眼神接觸，等待片刻。這會迫使對方重新打開話匣子。不過小心，這也可能激怒對方。

9.Drop Name-Bombs

名字轟炸

If you want to make an impression on someone and maybe even appear charming to them, try repeating their name throughout the conversation. This is because when we hear our names, it grabs our attention and makes us feel like we're being personally addressed and really engaged with. Make sure you don't overdo it though, as you might appear a little bit creepy.

如果你想給某人留下深刻的印象，乃至讓對方覺得你很有魅力，可以試著在交談過程中反復(fù)提及他們的名字。這是因?yàn)?，?dāng)我們聽到自己的名字時(shí)，我們會集中注意力，并感到對方是在單獨(dú)跟我們對話，同時(shí)我們也會特別投入這段對話，不過要注意不要過度哦，否則你會顯得有些猥瑣。