盡可能地自信
Most will tell you to stay healthy and fit, but there are men out there who enjoy women with full figures. Weight really has nothing to do with getting a boyfriend. However, you must always try and look your best. Not only will you feel great, but you will exude confidence. Men love a confident woman who is comfortable in her own skin.
大多數人說保持健康苗條就行,但事實上喜歡豐滿身材的男性大有人在。體重與找一個男朋友真的沒有多大關系。但是,你需要盡可能的呈現(xiàn)出自己最美的一面。這樣不僅能讓你自我感覺良好,而且還會散發(fā)出自信的魅力。男人喜歡愛自己的自信女人。
Whether you are a size zero or a size 20W, you need to love yourself. We are born as imperfect creatures so don't hold yourself to anyone's standards but your own. Everyone else can go toblazes.
無論你穿的是0號還是20W號的衣服,你都需要愛自己。我們生來就是不完美的,所以不要按照別人的標準去生活,自己盡興就好。其他人都見鬼去吧。
Tell negativity to take a hike
不要表現(xiàn)出消極情緒
Life can get all of us down at times and many of us suffer from depression. While we can't help having it sometimes, men do take notice if we are constantly negative.
生活總會讓我們不時吃癟,很多人都會因此郁郁寡歡。雖然我們無法控制這些磕磕碰碰,但如果我們總表現(xiàn)出消極情緒,男人是會注意到的。
Obviously, you can't turn depression on and off like a light switch. However, do your best to look at the positive things in your life and keep an optimistic outlook. If you feel you're in a rut, start going out of your comfort zone and try new things that you wouldn't have even dreamed of before. The world is your oyster and you should do what makes you feel happy.
顯然,你無法像控制開關那樣控制抑郁。但是,請盡可能地看到生活的積極面,保持樂觀。如果你感覺自己陷入困境,那就走出自己的舒適區(qū),嘗試你未曾想過的新鮮事物。你可以隨心所欲,做一些讓自己開心的事情。
If there's anything a man finds infectious, it's a lady who is enjoying herself in any elementshe puts herself in.
男人覺得什么樣的女人最有感染力?當然是無論身處何種情況都能享受自我的女人!
Have your own life
有自己的生活
This is an absolute need if you want to find a boyfriend. While men love it when we lavish attention upon them, they also like their space. So do your own thing. Don't be afraid to have other plans with your friends or do things for yourself solo.
如果你想找到一個男朋友,這是必要條件。雖然男人喜歡我們將注意力花在他身上,但他也喜歡擁有自己的空間。所以,做自己的事!如果和朋友有約或想一個人做些事時,不要擔心。
Rather than making a potential boyfriend the sole focus of your life, keep separate interests and activities so that you're not always available for him. This will, in turn, keep him interested as he sees that you are more valuable than the tart at the bar who keeps hounding him.
不要讓潛在的男朋友成為你生活的唯一焦點,你也要有自己的興趣和活動,因為你不會無時無刻陪在他的身邊。反過來,這會讓他對你更有興趣,因為他覺得你比酒吧里那些圍著他轉的小妖精更珍貴。