約會(huì)成功的信號(hào) 你學(xué)會(huì)了嗎？（雙語(yǔ)）

約會(huì)結(jié)束的后續(xù)

Generally speaking, once the date ends and you parted ways, chances are you told her something along the lines of “Text me when you get home to let me know you’re safe," or something to that effect. If she had a good time, there’s a good chance she’ll end up texting back and forth with you for a little while afterwards.

通常來(lái)說(shuō)，約會(huì)結(jié)束你們分開走的時(shí)候，你就應(yīng)該趁機(jī)告訴她類似于“到家的時(shí)候給我發(fā)個(gè)短信，告訴我你安全到家了，”或者一些能起到那種效果的話。如果她過(guò)得很開心的話，很有可能到家過(guò)一會(huì)兒就跟你來(lái)回短信。

If communication drops off entirely once you part ways, sorry to say, there’s a good chance she didn’t really have that good of a time and was just trying to save face and not make things awkward

如果你們分開走之后就完全沒(méi)有任何交流了的話，很抱歉地告訴你，可能她過(guò)得并不怎么愉快，之前都只是給你留面子，不想事情弄得太尷尬。

2.The Goodbye

道別

Chances are if she had a good time, she’s going to be open to or possibly even suggest potential future plans together. Maybe you guys talked about how you both haven’t seen that one movie yet, or dined at that restaurant yet, or there’s a bar that you should both check out. That’s a pretty obvious in for a date in the future, and if any of this type of conversation happened, your date went pretty well.

如果她過(guò)得很開心的話，她就會(huì)跟你一起談?wù)勆踔两ㄗh下一次的約會(huì)計(jì)劃。也許你們兩個(gè)會(huì)談到一部?jī)蓚€(gè)人都沒(méi)看過(guò)的電影，或是兩人沒(méi)一起吃過(guò)的那家餐館，又或者你們倆應(yīng)該去同一家酒吧看看。那就很明顯你們會(huì)有下一次約會(huì)了，如果有任何類似于這種的對(duì)話，你這次的約會(huì)就很成功了。

3. It Went On Longer Than Expected

約會(huì)時(shí)間比預(yù)期的要長(zhǎng)

If you want to know if your first date was a success or not, take a look at how long it went on. When dinner, or whatever the first part of your date ended, did you ask her to go somewhere else? Did she say yes or no? These are the questions you need to ask yourself.

如果你想知道你的第一次約會(huì)是否成功，只要看看它持續(xù)了多久時(shí)間就行。晚飯的時(shí)候，或者你第一次約會(huì)結(jié)束的時(shí)候，你有沒(méi)有邀請(qǐng)她跟你去別的地方?她答應(yīng)了還是拒絕了?這些都是你需要問(wèn)你自己的問(wèn)題。

If she did happily accompany you to whatever second venue you guys decided on, that’s definitely a good sign. It means that she at least wanted to see a little more of you and get to know you better.

如果她開心地陪你到任何你決定去的地方，那肯定是個(gè)好的征兆了。這就意味著她至少想多看看你，更好地了解了解你。

4. She Remembered The Little Things

她記得細(xì)節(jié)

If she was into you when she was on the date she likely paid a lot more attention to the little details, and also asked a lot more questions than she would have if she didn’t really care for you. So, if later on in the date you found that she remembered details that you mentioned very casually in passing, that’s definitely a sign that the date went well.

如果她喜歡你的話，你們約會(huì)的時(shí)候，她就可能會(huì)關(guān)注很多細(xì)節(jié)部分，同時(shí)也喜歡問(wèn)你很多問(wèn)題，如果她不是真的在乎你的話，她何必這樣做呢。所以，到約會(huì)后面部分的時(shí)候，如果你發(fā)現(xiàn)她記得那些你走路的時(shí)候隨意提到的細(xì)節(jié)，那絕對(duì)是約會(huì)進(jìn)行地很順利的征兆。

5. Her Body Language

她的肢體語(yǔ)言

If she wanted to impress you and you took her to a nice restaurant, there’s a good chance she tried to look extra nice. If you notice any of the more obvious, difficult-to-confuse positive body-language signals from her, you probably won’t be wrong in assuming your first date was a success.

如果你帶她去了一個(gè)很好的餐廳，她想讓你印象深刻的話，她很有可能會(huì)試著讓自己看起來(lái)很好。如果你注意到其中一點(diǎn)——她很主動(dòng)地做出一些暗示尤為明顯的動(dòng)作的話，你可能沒(méi)猜錯(cuò)——第一次約會(huì)很成功哦。

6. You Had Her Attention

你抓住了她的注意力

If she was enjoying the date, you had her attention. How much, if she was sitting there texting back and forth with her friends while you were together, that’s a bad sign.

如果她很享受這次約會(huì)的話，那你就贏得了她的注意。贏得多少呢?如果你們兩個(gè)在一起的時(shí)候，她一直坐在那兒跟朋友發(fā)短信的話，那就是個(gè)不好的信號(hào)。

If she was into the date, she would have avoided her phone. If she couldn't look away the whole evening and it made you feel like the most interesting man in the world, you had a successful first date.

如果她喜歡這個(gè)約會(huì)，她就不會(huì)玩手機(jī)了。如果她整晚都沒(méi)有看別處的話——好像你是世界上最有趣的男人，你的第一次約會(huì)就成功了。

7. Deep Conversation

更深入的對(duì)話

If you spent the whole date talking about both of your jobs and how the weather was last weekend, you probably didn’t hit it off. When you’re on a good date, you tend to get lost in the conversation, and before you know it the time has flown by. If every step of the way it felt like you were desperately trying to dig for something to talk about, it probably didn’t go that well.

如果你們整個(gè)約會(huì)都在談?wù)摫舜说墓ぷ骷爸苣┨鞖馊绾蔚脑?，你們兩個(gè)也許沒(méi)能一拍即合。約會(huì)很順利的話，你就會(huì)談得很多，甚至都不知道時(shí)間過(guò)了多久。如果你每一次都是絕望地試著找話題聊，那這次約會(huì)就不順利了。

8. You Had A Lot In Common

你們兩個(gè)有很多相同之處

Finding common ground is definitely a great early sign that things went well on your date. It could be as simple as your favorite brand of breakfast cereal growing up or your unreasonable obsession with comic books. It shows that you were both comfortable enough to open up and share your interests, which can be challenging when you are just meeting someone. You don’t know how they’re going to react to your interests, so if everything goes smoothly here, this is a great sign.

發(fā)現(xiàn)相同之處絕對(duì)是你約會(huì)進(jìn)行地很順利的最早的信號(hào)。這也許很簡(jiǎn)單：比如你們從小到大最喜歡的早餐谷物牌子、或是你們對(duì)于漫畫書不可理喻的癡迷。這都表明你們兩個(gè)可以很好地敞開心扉，分享彼此的興趣愛好，剛遇到某個(gè)人的話，這也許是個(gè)挑戰(zhàn)。你不知道她們會(huì)對(duì)你的興趣做出怎么樣的反應(yīng)，所以如果事情到這兒還是發(fā)展順利的話，一定是個(gè)好的信號(hào)。

9. It Started Well

有一個(gè)好的開始

When you guys first said met and said your hellos, was there a connection right away? Did you feel comfortable pretty quickly or was it awkward for most of the night? Did it feel like she was trying to make it go smoother or did you have to do all the work? If she wasn’t feeling it, she probably didn't ask you too many questions, and didn’t try all that hard to lead the discussion anywhere. The early part of the date can be a good indicator, but even if things were a bit stale then, there’s still always the chance that things turned around later.

當(dāng)你們剛見面打招呼的時(shí)候，有沒(méi)有一拍即合?有沒(méi)有很快就覺(jué)得很放松了，還是說(shuō)整個(gè)晚上都覺(jué)得很尷尬?她看起來(lái)是不是在努力緩和氣氛或者你是不是一直都在一個(gè)人努力著?如果她不怎么喜歡這次約會(huì)的話，她可能不會(huì)問(wèn)你很多問(wèn)題，也不會(huì)試著去找話題。約會(huì)開始的時(shí)候就會(huì)給你一個(gè)好的暗示，但是即便隨后的發(fā)展有點(diǎn)倦怠，也還是會(huì)有機(jī)會(huì)扭轉(zhuǎn)局面的。

10. Pre-Date Signs

約會(huì)前的信號(hào)

The things that happened leading up to the date can tell you a lot about how interested she was in the date in the first place. Did she show up on time? Did she reschedule it? If every other part of the date seemed to go south, you might want to look all the way back to the beginning to see if there were any red flags before you two even started your first date.

約會(huì)之前發(fā)生的事情會(huì)告訴你，最初她對(duì)這次約會(huì)有多大的感興趣。她準(zhǔn)時(shí)到了嗎?她跟你改時(shí)間了嗎?如果所有約會(huì)的其他部分都是糟糕的，那就往回看看最開始，你們倆甚至還沒(méi)有第一次約會(huì)之前的時(shí)候是不是有什么危險(xiǎn)信號(hào)。