1.2那么,成為好父親的秘訣是什么,有時(shí)候事情會(huì)如你所愿,有時(shí)候則事與愿違,但你要堅(jiān)持,因?yàn)楫?dāng)一切塵埃落地,一個(gè)好父親的大部分特征就會(huì)自然出現(xiàn)。Okay, the key to being a good dad? Sometimes things work out just the way you want. Sometimes they don't. You gotta hang in there. Because when all is said and done,90% of being a dad is just showin'up.
1.3不覺得好像伸出手臂就能擁抱全世界嗎?Doesn’t it feel like these arms could go around the world?
1.4你們都極力想護(hù)住些美好的東西.You’re reaching out, trying to hold on to something awesome.
1.5【大家一起跳進(jìn)泳池】
1.6 我是故意輸?shù)糇屗_心點(diǎn)的嗎?也許吧。但在今天,他需要這一場(chǎng)勝利.我們常常為了深愛的人做些稀奇古怪的事,我們對(duì)他們?nèi)鲋e,我們?yōu)樗麄內(nèi)鲋e?;蛟S生活中難免坎坷顛簸,但我們總希望他們過得盡善盡美。就像是肩負(fù)著最沉重的負(fù)擔(dān),但卻是世上最甜蜜負(fù)擔(dān)。Did I lose the race to make him feel better? Maybe. But it just seemed like he could use a win today. We do strange things for the people we love. We lie to them, we lie for them. There may be some bumps along the way, but we never stop waiting the best for them. That’s what makes it such a tough job. Kind of the best job in the world.
1.7我們教育孩子們說,輸贏無所謂。但平心而論,勝利的感覺好極了。他們?cè)陉柟庀碌哪且豢淌菬o與倫比的美麗。也許每位家長(zhǎng)都希望孩子能有這樣的時(shí)刻,甚至希望自己也能這樣。有時(shí)我們太苛求結(jié)果,結(jié)果導(dǎo)致許多怨恨和愧疚,怎么才不算過分呢,我的想法是:愧疚總會(huì)過去,獎(jiǎng)牌才是硬道理。We tell our kids it doesn’t matter if you win or lose. But let’s be honest, winning feels pretty great. There’s nothing like that golden moment in the sun. I think every parent probably wants that for their child, and maybe a little bit for ourselves too. Sometimes we push too hard, and that leads to a lot of resentment and guilt. So, how much is too much? Here’s where I come out: Guilt fades. Hardware is forever.
1.8【Phil請(qǐng)樂隊(duì)唱定情歌給Clair驚喜】
1.9如果你在派對(duì)舉辦之前問我是否希望發(fā)生一系列災(zāi)難的連鎖反應(yīng),導(dǎo)致Luke摔傷了胳膊,我很可能會(huì)說不。但是,不管怎么樣,Luke在他生日這天是眾人關(guān)心的焦點(diǎn),而且全家人都聚在一起,那正是家庭生日會(huì)該有的樣子。If you’d asked me before the party if I wanted there to be a chain reaction of disasters that led to Luke breaking his arm, I probably would’ve said no. But, one way or another, Luke was the center of attention on his birthday and the whole family was together just the way it should be.
1.10每年的這個(gè)時(shí)候,我們就會(huì)經(jīng)常談?wù)搨鹘y(tǒng),盡管我們深愛著自己的傳統(tǒng),但有時(shí)候我們最美好的回憶,卻來自最顛覆傳統(tǒng)的時(shí)刻。We talk a lot about tradition this time of year. But as much as we love our traditions, Sometimes our best memories come from the times that are the most untraditional.
1.11如果要我有點(diǎn)大人樣,是讓我像世上正常的大人那樣,還是像家里的這些大人。如果要我像家里的大人一樣,那么也沒什么難的。【Phil跟Luke在玩水槍】If I’m supposed to act like an adult, is that act like adults I see in the world or the adults in my family? ‘Cause if it's the ones in my family,then,how hard could that be?
1.12【狗管家】
1.13不管是為自己還是為了所愛的人改變,15%,有時(shí)候這樣就足夠了 Whether it’s for themselves or for the people they love, yeah,15%, sometimes that’s just enough.
1.14那會(huì)兒我只想回家,但回去呀肯定要想辦法道歉我說話太重傷了他們,他們?cè)敬罂梢杂浐尬覟殡y我,但他們沒有。愛死他們了。 At that moment all I wanted was to be with my family. But of course, that meant finding a way to apologize to the people that I had belittled and rejected. They could have been petty. They really could have made me pay, but they didn’t. Never loved’em more.
1.15【情人節(jié)Phil夫婦鬧笑話】
1.16每個(gè)人都有怕的東西,不是嗎?怕高,怕小丑,怕窄小的空間,這些都可以克服,然后我們還有孩子。他們是否合群?是否安全?我們注定要擔(dān)心一輩子。所以有時(shí)我們只能深呼吸,擁抱他們希望一切安好。。Everybody’s afraid of something, right? Heights, clowns, tight spaces. Those are things you get over. But then there’s our children. Will they fit in? Will they be safe? Those are fears you never get past. So sometimes all you can do is take a deep breath, pull’em close and hope for the best.
1.17【Jay向Manny道歉】
1.18為什么梵高會(huì)創(chuàng)作《星空》那幅畫呢?或許是因?yàn)樘炜蘸苊利?,每個(gè)人都喜歡仰望星空,那提醒我們天空中有東西在時(shí)刻盯著我們.Why did he paint The Starry Night? Maybe because the sky is beautiful, and everybody likes looking at it, and it reminds us that something’s up there watching over all of us.
1.19【Clair最終買到了IPAD給Phil當(dāng)生日禮物】
1.20【Clair怕Alex學(xué)習(xí)壓力太大】
1.21【狗跟著Phil的老爸回家】
1.22【全家準(zhǔn)備去度假】
1.23【全家回LA】
1.24【全家穿白衣服抹泥巴拍全家?!?/p>