College students have more freedom than before and they also grow more and more mature in physical and mental. So it is natural that they would like to fall in love with someone. As a result, campus love becomes popular in university. For this phenomenon, people opinions vary. In my opinion, I don’t agree with that phenomenon.
跟以前相比,大學(xué)生擁有更多的自由,而且在身心上他們也在慢慢地變得越來(lái)越成熟。所以他們想談戀愛(ài)是很自然的。結(jié)果校園戀愛(ài)在大學(xué)中就變得很普遍。對(duì)于這一現(xiàn)象,人們眾說(shuō)紛紜。在我看來(lái),我是持反對(duì)意見(jiàn)的。
First of all, falling in love with others cost a lot of money. When two people have that kind of relationship, they will go out with each other often. When they are going out, they have to spend more money. During the dating, the boy may try his best to buy things to make the girl happy. While the girl may start to make up or buy more beautiful clothes to make herself look better. All these need money. However, university students are still students. They have no income. Their money is from their parents. Falling in love with someone will increase the burden of their family and themselves.
首先,戀愛(ài)需要花費(fèi)很多錢。當(dāng)兩個(gè)人是那種關(guān)系的時(shí)候,他們就會(huì)經(jīng)常一起出去。出去的時(shí)候就要花比較多的錢。約會(huì)中,男孩子會(huì)盡自己最大的努力去買東西給女孩讓她開心。而女孩也會(huì)開始化妝或者買一些漂亮的衣服來(lái)讓自己看起來(lái)更美麗。這些行為都是需要錢的。然而,大學(xué)生仍然還是學(xué)生。他們沒(méi)有收入。他們的錢是父母給的。戀愛(ài)會(huì)增加家庭和自己的負(fù)擔(dān)。
In addition, dating will distract students’ attention from study. Although college students are growing more and more mature, they are still teenagers having little life experience. Their self- discipline always is not good. If they can’t deal with the relation between study and dating properly, their study always will be given up by themselves. Even they won’t give up their study, but it is surely influenced.
此外,約會(huì)也會(huì)分散學(xué)生在學(xué)習(xí)上的注意力。雖然大學(xué)生越來(lái)越成熟了,但是他們?nèi)匀皇菦](méi)有什么生活經(jīng)驗(yàn)的青少年。他們的自我約束能力并不是那么好。如果他們不能處理好學(xué)習(xí)與戀愛(ài)之間的關(guān)系,他們終究會(huì)放棄自己的學(xué)習(xí)。就算他們不會(huì)放棄自己的學(xué)業(yè),但肯定會(huì)受影響的。
In general, dating in campus is bad for the development of university students. For the sake of their life and study, they should not start a relation while they are still in campus.
總的來(lái)說(shuō),校園戀愛(ài)不利于大學(xué)生的發(fā)展??丛谏詈蛯W(xué)習(xí)的份上,他們不應(yīng)該在學(xué)校的時(shí)候就開始談戀愛(ài)。