The Paradox of Happiness（雙語(yǔ)）

What is the definition of "happiness?"Is it material wealth filled with fancy cars, a dream house,exteravagant furs and jewelry? Or is happiness simply having a roof over your head? Food in the fridge?Having a child? A pet?A swimming pool?A designer Gucci bag?Parents?Grandchildren?Love?Money?The perfct job?Winning the Lottery?

“幸福”是什么?幸福是擁有豪華的汽車、夢(mèng)想的居室、名貴的裘皮和珠寶等物質(zhì)上的富足嘛?或者，幸福其實(shí)很簡(jiǎn)單——有遮風(fēng)避雨的住所，冰箱里有食物，有孩子、寵物、游泳池、Gucci的包，有父母、子孫、有愛(ài)情、金錢和理想的工作，彩票中獎(jiǎng)了呢?

According to the American Heritage Dictionary,"happiness"is derived from the Middle English word hap—meaning"Luck."But does happiness really have anything to do with"luck?"Based on this description,one could assume that if you avoided a fatal traffic accident but got fired by coming late to work,you would be filled with"happiness?"Is it luck or what you make of it?Maybe,"happiness"is exactly defined by its indirect alias:happiness-perhaps,happiness is in fact defined by the fortune thatwe permit to happen.

在《美國(guó)傳統(tǒng)字典》中，幸福是從中古英語(yǔ)“Hap”一詞演變而來(lái)，“Hap”意為“好運(yùn)”。幸福真的與“好運(yùn)”有關(guān)聯(lián)嗎?基于此，想想看，如果你在一場(chǎng)必死無(wú)疑的交通事故中幸免于難，卻因此遲到，導(dǎo)致被老板炒魷魚。對(duì)此，我們應(yīng)該感到“幸福”嗎?這是好運(yùn)嗎?還是要看個(gè)人如何看待這個(gè)問(wèn)題呢?或許確切地說(shuō)，幸福的定義應(yīng)當(dāng)直接從它的詞源來(lái)看——事實(shí)上，幸?；蛟S就是命中注定要發(fā)生的事情。

Do you recall a time—let's say when you were about 5 years old—what defined happiness back then?Was it getting a puppy for Christmas? Or maybe,you were a child of divorce;and all you wanted was for Mom and Dad to get back together again?Then as you got older,you were hoping that someone would ask you to the prom that would've made your day,maybe your life for the moment.During college,good grades made you happy,but it was short-lived.Becaust in the real world,you had to look for a job,and competition was stark.It's an employer's world you thought.But then, you got the perfect job—now you could be happy—or could you?

你能回憶起你5歲時(shí)對(duì)幸福的理解嗎?那時(shí)，幸福是從圣誕樹上摘下的一只小狗嗎?或者爸爸媽媽離婚了，你唯一的愿望就是他們能和好如初，重新生活在一起?當(dāng)你漸漸長(zhǎng)大，你希望有人會(huì)邀請(qǐng)你參加舞會(huì)，希望所有的日子都凝固在那一天，那一刻。上大學(xué)期間，考試得了高分讓你無(wú)比開心，但這種幸福感畢竟是短暫的。因?yàn)樵诂F(xiàn)實(shí)中，你得找一份工作，而社會(huì)競(jìng)爭(zhēng)也相當(dāng)激烈。于是，你就會(huì)想，這是一個(gè)雇主的世界。隨后，你找到了一份理想的工作——現(xiàn)在的你很開心，是嗎?

Life requires more than just what we want. Inevitably,one must understand to truly find"happiness,"he must make his own happiness "happen".Sounds a bit redundant,but truthfully,there is no set guidelines that will bring one happiness.There is no "magic wand"we can wave to bring joy into our lives.Human nature thrives on the thrill of the chase.We dream and we hope for the next big brea—it is the grand adventure of licing.

生活向我們索要的遠(yuǎn)比我們想要的多。一個(gè)人必須明白，要想真正找到幸福，他就必須讓自己幸福?？赡苈?tīng)起來(lái)有些多余，但確是如此——生活中，沒(méi)有能代來(lái)幸福的現(xiàn)成的指南，也沒(méi)有揮一揮就能帶來(lái)歡樂(lè)的魔棒。人性在追求幸福的刺激中不斷升級(jí)、完善。我們夢(mèng)想著，期望著下一個(gè)大的轉(zhuǎn)變——這就是生活中的大冒險(xiǎn)了。

We are hopeless creatures of comfort.We like having and accumulating things.Whether one admits to it or not,to a certain degree,we all try to keep up with"the Jones".We work so we can pay our rents,mortgages, credit card debts,school loans,car payments...the list goes on and on.And at some point,we realize,that aside from having most of what we want,we still arem't happy.Now since we've learned to adapt to new standards which we've created for ourselves,we find that we have less time,less patience,less sleep,which equates to more stress,more worry and more aggravation.So,is happiness honestly juest comprised of"things"?

我們是無(wú)助的享樂(lè)者，喜歡擁有和積攢東西。不論人們承認(rèn)與否，一定程度上，我們都在相互攀比。我們之所以工作，是因?yàn)橐斗孔?，償還抵押貸款，還清信用卡透支費(fèi)用，償付助學(xué)貸款，買車，等等。此類費(fèi)用接連而至，讓我們應(yīng)接不暇。于是，我們會(huì)突然意識(shí)到，盡管擁有了想要的一切，我們?nèi)匀徊恍腋?。自從適應(yīng)了自己定下的新生活標(biāo)準(zhǔn)，我們的時(shí)間短了，耐性沒(méi)了，睡眠少了，但壓力大了，焦慮多了，脾氣也暴躁了。鑒于此，幸福真的是由“物質(zhì)”組成的嗎?

Sometimes,we virtually reade our lives for not only basic necessities,but for excessive items and services as well.We become so obsessed with finding happiness,that we lose sight of the fact that happiness is within—always.Certainly you've heard of individuals trying to "find themselves",or"rediscover themselves".The reason they are attempting these innovantive approaches is because they are seeking inner happiness.But the point has been missed:Happiness is already there.

事實(shí)上，有時(shí)，我們不僅用生命交換生活必需品，還用生命交換多余的物質(zhì)享受和服務(wù)。我們這般沉迷于追求幸福，卻忽略了一個(gè)事實(shí)——幸福一直就在我們心中。當(dāng)然，你一定聽(tīng)過(guò)這樣的事，即有些人一直都在苦苦“找尋自我”或“重新發(fā)現(xiàn)自我”。他們創(chuàng)新嘗試的理由只不過(guò)是想找尋心靈深處的幸福。但他們忽略了一點(diǎn)，即幸福從頭至尾到在心中。

Disappointments and reagedies in life will come and go,but happiness never leaves you.The human's capacity to be resilient to reials is unfathomable.We can lose our jobs,but be grateful for our spouses.We can lose our homes to nature,but be thankful to alive.

失望和悲傷在生命中交替輪回，但幸福從不會(huì)舍你而去。人類對(duì)困難的適應(yīng)能力無(wú)可限量。我們可以失去工作，但會(huì)為擁有愛(ài)人而感恩不已;我們可以流離失所，但會(huì)為活著而心存感激。

Happiness is a perception of each indivdual.We are instincively compelled to find fault in our lives.By human nature,we begin our "fault-find-ing"mission the moment we're capable of free-thinking.It is then,that we lose sense of self-worth and the bigger picture of vitality altogether.Stuck in the patterns of the happiness paradox,we simply cannot find where our happiness has gone.

幸福是個(gè)人的一種感知。我們本能地受限于外界，找尋著生活的瑕疵，出于人的天性，我們從有能力自由思考的那刻起，就開始對(duì)生活吹毛求疵。也就在那時(shí)，我們失去了對(duì)自我價(jià)值的認(rèn)知，也失去了生命的活力，陷于幸福的矛盾中，找不到幸福的方向。

It's not a matter of bargaining,it's not an issue of money or fame—instead,happiness is what you resolve to accept.If we live through optimis-tic hope;if we dare to dream;if we empower ourselves to fully live;then we have regained our sense of happiness,There is no in berween.There is no other replacement.We only have one physical life to live—we have no choice but to make the most of it.

幸福是你決定去接受的東西，沒(méi)有任何商量的余地，它于金錢或名譽(yù)毫無(wú)瓜葛。只要我們活在樂(lè)觀希望之中，敢于大膽夢(mèng)想，活得簡(jiǎn)單純粹，那么，我們就會(huì)重新?lián)碛行腋５母杏X(jué)。那種感覺(jué)并非懸于幸于不幸之間的真空地帶，也無(wú)任何替代品。我們只能活一次——除了好好活著，我們別無(wú)選擇。