日常英語(yǔ) 約會(huì)對(duì)象在一次約會(huì)后突然消失

如果一個(gè)人和你約會(huì)后就不見(jiàn)蹤影，可能有多方面原因，并不是因?yàn)槟悴粔蚝谩?/strong>

Men and women come in several behavioural layers. As such, one might not feel connected to his/her date regardless of how beautiful and intelligent the person may appear.

每個(gè)人的行為都很復(fù)雜，有時(shí)會(huì)讓人捉摸不透。因此，無(wú)論約會(huì)對(duì)象看起來(lái)多美麗、多聰明，有時(shí)你可能仍會(huì)感到與他/她之間有些距離感。

Getting a call back is not entirely dependent on how well the date goes. A date can go sour and afterward, the person would reach out. Also, it could go well and you get ghosted.

并不是說(shuō)約會(huì)順利對(duì)方就會(huì)給你回電話?？赡芗s會(huì)不太順利，對(duì)方事后仍主動(dòng)聯(lián)系你；也有可能進(jìn)展順利，你卻被甩了。

Ghosting, after a date, is based on different reasons and some far from how the date turns out. However, getting ghosted is not a gender-specific experience, men get ghosted just as women do after a date. Although, it is arguable that women get ghosted more than men, after a date.

約會(huì)對(duì)象在一次約會(huì)后突然消失，原因多種多樣，有些原因甚至與約會(huì)進(jìn)展毫不相關(guān)，與性別也同樣不相關(guān)。約會(huì)后女性可能會(huì)被甩，男性也可能會(huì)。但總的來(lái)看，女性在約會(huì)后被甩的次數(shù)比男性多。

“被人甩”可能會(huì)讓你讓感到生氣、難過(guò)，也可能讓你感到困惑。你開(kāi)始自我懷疑：我做錯(cuò)了什么嗎？我說(shuō)錯(cuò)了什么嗎？我看起來(lái)不夠好嗎？

其實(shí)，正是因?yàn)槟愫图s會(huì)對(duì)象沒(méi)有溝通交流，所以你才不知道自己為什么會(huì)被甩。就算你自以為約會(huì)進(jìn)行得很順利，你也會(huì)覺(jué)得，發(fā)短信或打電話說(shuō)這些實(shí)在難以啟齒，對(duì)吧？

According to Natalie Jones, a doctor of psychology, someone's reason for ghosting you has little to do with you. She suggests that it could be a result of attachment issues, emotional level, and several more.

心理學(xué)博士娜塔麗·瓊斯說(shuō)，有人把你甩了這事與你自身沒(méi)太大關(guān)系。她說(shuō)，這可能是因?yàn)閻?ài)慕、個(gè)人情緒或其他因素。