Make a compromise 折中

Sarah向原來(lái)的同事Amanda訴苦，說(shuō)剛換了新工作，就趕上三個(gè)人過(guò)生日，都要湊份子，感覺(jué)心理很不平衡。Amanda 勸她說(shuō)，

A: If I were you, I would just bite the bullet and hand over the money. First impressions are important and it's not worth getting a reputation for being a Scrooge. Think about it this way: when your birthday comes around, you'll have at least one card and cake to look forward to.

S: A Scrooge is someone who is stingy with his money even though he has plenty, right? I wouldn't want my colleagues to think I am refusing to contribute to the pool even though I can, but this would put me way over my weekly budget.

Amanda建議Sarah硬著頭皮湊份子，Bite the bullet意思是硬著頭皮接受自己不愿意做的事情。她說(shuō)，第一印象很重要，不能為了這點(diǎn)錢(qián)給別人留下“守財(cái)奴”的印象。It's not worth getting a reputation for being a Scrooge. Scrooge意思是討厭的守財(cái)奴。Sarah 說(shuō)自己不是不肯出錢(qián)，contribute to the pool, pool指的是大家湊的錢(qián)，可如果出錢(qián)，一星期的預(yù)算就會(huì)超出很多。

A: What about a compromise? Maybe you could sit down privately with the person in charge of collecting the money and explain that coming from a smaller department, you've never had to deal with so many birthdays at once. Offer to give her five dollars for each birthday instead, and promise that you will make your famous brownies for the celebration.

S: That sounds like a good plan. I hope theyunderstand where I'm coming from and don'thold it against me.

Amanda建議Sarah去找負(fù)責(zé)收錢(qián)的同事商量，try to make a compromise. 看能不能找到一個(gè)居中的妥協(xié)方案，把份子錢(qián)從十塊減少到五塊，但同時(shí)保證烤自己拿手的蛋糕，來(lái)慶祝同事的生日。Sarah覺(jué)得這個(gè)辦法不錯(cuò)，希望同事能understand where I'm coming from. 意思是能明白和理解我的本意，don't hold it against me（不要對(duì)我有意見(jiàn)）。

A: I'm sure they will understand. Lots of people have been in the same position before. And, maybe once you get to know them better, ten dollars won't seem like such a big deal anymore.

S: Thanks so much for your advice, I feel a lot better about the situation.

A: You're welcome. Let's make sure we keep in touch, Sarah!

S: Sure, I'll talk to you again soon and let you know how it goes. Enjoy your lunch!

Amanda叫Sarah放心，一定有很多人遇到過(guò)這種情形（lots of people have been in the same position before）。她還說(shuō)，等Sarah和同事們熟了以后，湊十塊錢(qián)的份子錢(qián)可能也就沒(méi)什么大不了的了。