新概念英語(yǔ)第四冊(cè)(含lrc文本)Lesson 34 Adolescence

Lesson 34
Adolescence
青春期
First listen and then answer the following question.
聽(tīng)錄音，然后回答以下問(wèn)題。
What do adolescents respect in parents?
Parents are often upset when their children praise the homes of their friends and regard it as a slur on their own cooking, or cleaning, or furniture, and often are foolish enough to let the adolescents see that they are annoyed. They may even accuse them of disloyalty, or make some spiteful remark about the friends' parents. Such loss of dignity and descent into childish behaviour on the part to their parents about the place or people they visit. Before very long the parents will be complaining that the child is so secretive and never tells them anything, but they seldom realize that they have brought this on themselves.
Disillusionment with the parents, however good and adequate they may be both as parents and as individuals, is to some degree inevitable. Most children have such a high ideal of their parents, unless the parents themselves have been unsatisfactory, that it can hardly hope to stand up to a realistic evaluation. Parents would be greatly surprised and deeply touched if they hope to stand up to a realistic evaluation. Parents would be greatly surprised and deeply touched if they realized how much belief their children usually have in their character and infallibility, and how much this faith means to a child. If parents were prepared for this adolescent reaction, and realized that it was a sign that the child was growing up and developing valuable powers of observation and independent judgment, they would not be so hurt, and therefore would not drive the child into opposition by resenting and resisting it.
The adolescent, with his passion for sincerity, always respects a parent who admits that he is wrong, or ignorant, or even that he has been unfair or unjust. What the child cannot forgive is the parent's refusal to admit these charges if the child knows them to be true.
Victorian parents believed that they kept their dignity by retreating behind an unreasoning authoritarian attitude; in fact they did nothing of the kind, but children were then too cowed to let them know how they really felt. Today we tend to go to the other extreme, but on the whole this is a healthier attitude both for the child and the parent. It is always wiser and safer to face up to reality, however painful it may be at the moment.
DOTID OFLUM Journey Through Adolescence
New words and expressions 生詞和短語(yǔ)
adolescence
n.
slur
n. 青春期
adolescent
n. 底毀
disloyalty
n. 青少年（12-18歲）
spiteful
adj. 惡意的，懷恨的
disillusionment
n. 幻滅感
evaluation
n. 評(píng)價(jià)
infallibility
n. 一貫正確
resent
v. 怨恨
sincerity
n. 誠(chéng)摯
victorian
adj. 維多利亞式的
retreat
v. 后退
unreasoning
adj. 不憑理智的
authoritarian
adj. 專制的
cow
v. 嚇唬