1. Stop spending time with the wrong people.
不要花時(shí)間和錯(cuò)誤的人相處。
Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you. If someone wants you in their life, they’ll make room for you. You shouldn’t have to fight for a spot. Never, ever insist yourself to someone who continuously overlooks your worth. And remember, it’s not the people that stand by your side when you’re at your best, but the ones who stand beside you when you’re at your worst that are your true friends.
人生苦短,沒有必要和那些令你不快樂的人糾纏。如果那個(gè)人需要你,你不需要刻意去做什么,他/她自然會留出你的位置。絕對不要和那些低看了你價(jià)值的人在一起。記住,一帆風(fēng)順時(shí)守在自己身邊并不珍貴,當(dāng)你深陷困境卻依然和你并肩在一起的才是真正的朋友。
2. Stop running from your problems.
不要逃避問題。
Face them head on. No, it won’t be easy. There is no person in the world capable of flawlessly handling every punch thrown at them. We aren’t supposed to be able to instantly solve problems. That’s not how we’re made. In fact, we’re made to get upset, sad, hurt, stumble and fall. Because that’s the whole purpose of living – to face problems, learn, adapt, and solve them over the course of time. This is what ultimately molds us into the person we become.
直面并解決問題。沒錯(cuò),這很不容易。世上沒有人能夠輕松的渡過每一個(gè)難關(guān)。也沒有人就能不停地輕松地戰(zhàn)勝困難。事實(shí)上,我們本就該迷茫,傷心,難過,出差錯(cuò),因?yàn)槟鞘巧畹囊饬x所在——去面對問題,去學(xué)習(xí),去適應(yīng),隨著時(shí)間的發(fā)展學(xué)會解決問題,塑造了我們成為什么樣的人。
3. Stop lying to yourself.
不要欺騙自己。
You can lie to anyone else in the world, but you can’t lie to yourself. Our lives improve only when we take chances, and the first and most difficult chance we can take is to be honest with ourselves.
你可以對世界上任何一個(gè)人撒謊,唯獨(dú)不能跟自己撒謊。只有我們不斷接受挑戰(zhàn),生活才能前進(jìn),然第一個(gè)也是最難的挑戰(zhàn)就是誠實(shí)的面對自己。
4. Stop putting your own needs on the back burner.
不要把自己的需求排在最后。
The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too. Yes, help others; but help yourself too. If there was ever a moment to follow your passion and do something that matters to you, that moment is now. 世界上最悲慘的事情是,太愛某一個(gè)人而丟失了自己,忘記了自己也是不一樣的存在。是的,要幫助別人,但是更要愛護(hù)自己。如果你從沒有跟從自己的內(nèi)心,從沒有為自己做些重要的事情,那現(xiàn)在就開始。
5. Stop trying to be someone you’re not.
不要強(qiáng)迫自己成為理想的別人。
One of the greatest challenges in life is being yourself in a world that’s trying to make you like everyone else. Someone will always be prettier, someone will always be smarter, someone will always be younger, but they will never be you. Don’t change so people will like you. Be yourself and the right people will love the real you.
世上最大的挑戰(zhàn)就是將自己改變成為另一個(gè)人??傆腥烁悠粒傆腥烁斆?,總有人更年輕,但他們都不是你。不要為了讓別人更喜歡自己而去強(qiáng)迫自己改變。做自己,對的人會愛真正的你。
6. Stop trying to hold onto the past.
不要總是攥著過去。
You can’t start the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading your last one.
如果你一直重讀昨天,那很難翻開人生新的篇章。
7. Stop being scared to make a mistake. 不要害怕犯錯(cuò)。
Doing something and getting it wrong is at least ten times more productive than doing nothing. Every success has a trail of failures behind it, and every failure is leading towards success. You end up regretting the things you did NOT do far more than the things you did. 不斷嘗試,哪怕是錯(cuò)了,也比什么都不做好十幾倍。每份成功背后都有無數(shù)的失敗,每一次失敗都是通往成功的嘗試。你會為沒有做過的事情后悔而不是去嘗試了的。
8. Stop berating yourself for old mistakes.
不要為過去的錯(cuò)誤而折磨自己。
We may love the wrong person and cry about the wrong things, but no matter how things go wrong, one thing is for sure, mistakes help us find the person and things that are right for us. We all make mistakes, have struggles, and even regret things in our past. But you are not your mistakes, you are not your struggles, and you are here NOW with the power to shape your day and your future. Every single thing that has ever happened in your life is preparing you for a moment that is yet to come.
我們也許會錯(cuò)愛過某個(gè)人,為某件錯(cuò)事而哭泣,但是不論多大的錯(cuò)事,可以確定的是,錯(cuò)誤的人或事會幫我們找到適合自己的人或事。我們都會犯錯(cuò),都會掙扎,甚至后悔過去做的事情但是如,你不是曾經(jīng)犯錯(cuò)誤的你,更不是曾經(jīng)不停掙扎著的你,你是全新的自己,那個(gè)有能力塑造新的現(xiàn)在和未來的你。曾經(jīng)發(fā)生的每一件事都是在為將要到來的時(shí)刻做準(zhǔn)備。
9. Stop trying to buy happiness.
不要試圖“購買”幸福。
Many of the things we desire are expensive. But the truth is, the things that really satisfy us are totally free – love, laughter and working on our passions.
我們想要的很多東西都非常昂貴。但事實(shí)是,真正適合我們的事情往往都是免費(fèi)的--真愛,微笑,激情的工作。
10. Stop exclusively looking to others for happiness.
不要幻想通過其他人來獲得幸福。
If you’re not happy with who you are on the inside, you won’t be happy in a long-term relationship with anyone else either. You have to create stability in your own life first before you can share it with someone else.
如果你對內(nèi)在的自己不滿意,那你很難在一段和別人的長期關(guān)系中獲得幸福。你要先建立自己的幸福才能和別人分享這份幸福。
11. Stop being idle.
不要閑著。
Don t think too much or you’ll create a problem that wasn t even there in the first place. Evaluate situations and take decisive action. You cannot change what you refuse to confront. Making progress involves risk. Period! You can t make it to second base with your foot on first.
別想太多,不然你會制造出很多不必要的麻煩。評估一下情況然后就做決定。你無法改變你不能面對的事。前進(jìn)總是意味著承擔(dān)風(fēng)險(xiǎn)。不邁出第一步,你就無法走出第二步,生活就是這樣的。
12. Stop thinking you re not ready.
不要總是想自己還未做好準(zhǔn)備。
Nobody ever feels 100% ready when an opportunity arises. Because most great opportunities in life force us to grow beyond our comfort zones, which means we won’t feel totally comfortable at first.
當(dāng)機(jī)會來了,沒有人會覺得自己做好了100%的準(zhǔn)備。因?yàn)樯钪械闹卮髾C(jī)會總是會迫使我們走出自己的舒適區(qū),這就意味著剛開始的時(shí)候我們肯定會感覺不舒服。
13. Stop getting involved in relationships for the wrong reasons.
不要因?yàn)槟硞€(gè)錯(cuò)誤的原因開始一段感情。
Relationships must be chosen wisely. It s better to be alone than to be in bad company. There s no need to rush. If something is meant to be, it will happen – in the right time, with the right person, and for the best reason. Fall in love when you’re ready, not when you re lonely.
必須要明智的選擇感情。有個(gè)錯(cuò)誤的伴侶還不如單身呢。沒有必要著急。如果緣分到了,一切都會到來的——在合適的時(shí)間跟合適的人。投入一段愛情是因?yàn)闀r(shí)機(jī)到了而不是感到孤單。
14. Stop rejecting new relationships just because old ones didn’t work.
不要因?yàn)橹皯偾榈氖《芙^新的感情。
In life you ll realize that there is a purpose for everyone you meet. Some will test you, some will use you and some will teach you. But most importantly, some will bring out the best in you. 在生命的長河中你會慢慢意識到,遇到所有的人都是命中注定的。有人會考驗(yàn)?zāi)?,有人會利用你,有人引?dǎo)你。但是最重要的是,這些會引領(lǐng)你找到真愛。
15. Stop trying to compete against everyone else.
不要總是和別人競爭。
Don t worry about what others are doing better than you. Concentrate on beating your own records every day. Success is a battle between You and Yourself only.
不要擔(dān)心其他人做的比你好。每天要專心于超越自己,成功只是一場自己跟自己的戰(zhàn)役。
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