1. Fairy tales and parables
1.童話和寓言故事
Fairy tales are an essential part of the child’s personal development. Psychologists prove that fairy tales help children comprehend the reality. Fairy tales and parables give us an opportunity to explain the child what is good and what is bad. They’re full of positive and negative characters, which do either good or bad deeds. To put it differently, fairy tale is the reflection of real life, communications and relationships between people. I remember my childhood with a pleasant feeling in my heart. I loved listening to fairy tales. When I listened to them, I imagined the characters, their feelings and emotions. My mom wanted to develop my imagination skills.
童話故事對于孩子的個人發(fā)展是一個重要部分。心理學(xué)家證明童話可以幫助孩子理解現(xiàn)實(shí)世界。童話和寓言故事給孩子提供了一個解釋好與壞的機(jī)會。童話和寓言故事中充滿了積極和消極的人物角色,他們會做好事或者壞事。換一種解釋方法就是,童話反映了現(xiàn)實(shí)生活、人與人之間的交流和人際關(guān)系。我記得我小時候內(nèi)心快樂的感覺。我喜歡聽童話故事。當(dāng)我聽童話故事的時候,我會想象里面的人物、他們的感覺和情感。我的媽媽希望發(fā)展我的想象力。
From time to time, it’s desirable to read parables together with kids. This morally edifying activity can teach children to be kind-hearted and law abiding people in the future and foster the best moral values in them.
和孩子時不時地一起讀寓言故事是值得的。這一活動在道德上對孩子有教育意義,可以教會孩子心地善良,告訴孩子在將來遵守法律,培養(yǎng)孩子的最好的道德價值觀。
2. Believe in Santa Claus
2.相信圣誕老人
Faith in something good has always been the best source of power, motivation and patience. People cannot live happily without looking for a miracle. I think that Santa Claus is the biggest miracle for every child on this planet. I know that the world of those children who believe in Santa Claus is full of joy, happiness and beauty. Let them enjoy this fairy tale while they’re small. A bit later, the harsh world will fill their hearts with realism and skepticism.
信念是一種很好的東西,一直是力量、動機(jī)和耐心的最好來源。人們?nèi)绻蝗ふ移孥E,就不能開心生活。我認(rèn)為圣誕老人是世界上每個孩子最大的奇跡。我知道世界上相信圣誕老人的孩子,都是快樂、幸福和美麗的。讓他們在小的時候,一直享受這一童話故事吧。以后,嚴(yán)酷的世界,會讓孩子們的心里充滿現(xiàn)實(shí)主義和懷疑態(tài)度。
Tell them that one day Santa will come and put a special gift under the Christmas tree or make their dreams come true. They just have to write a letter to Santa and ask him about something they want to get as a present. Many parents prefer to intimidate their children saying that Santa Claus won’t come, if they behave badly during the year. I believe that using fears isn’t the best idea to improve your child’s behavior.
告訴孩子們,有一天圣誕老人會來臨,然后將一個特殊的禮物放在圣誕樹之下,或者讓他們夢想成真。他們只需給圣誕老人寫信,請求圣誕老人他們想要的禮物就可以了。許多家長都更喜歡威脅孩子,告訴孩子如果他們今年表現(xiàn)不好,圣誕老人就不會來。我相信利用害怕并不是改善孩子行為最好的主意。