導(dǎo)致戀愛(ài)分手的七大異性特質(zhì)

導(dǎo)致戀愛(ài)分手的七大異性特質(zhì)

Researchers reveal the seven traits in a partner they say can kill a relationship

中國(guó)日?qǐng)?bào)網(wǎng) 2016-04-18 13:01

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Most singles have deal breakers when evaluating whether or not someone is their future Mr. or Mrs. Right.

在判定一個(gè)人是不是未來(lái)伴侶的時(shí)候，大多數(shù)單身人士都有自己的一套擇偶標(biāo)準(zhǔn)。

Researchers have now complied a list of the top deal breakers in order to determine what effects age and gender have on deciding which qualities are seen as deal breakers for different people.

如今，研究人員已經(jīng)列出一份最能導(dǎo)致分手的異性特征列表，目的是研究對(duì)不同性別和年齡段的人來(lái)說(shuō)，哪些異性特質(zhì)會(huì)讓他們結(jié)束一段戀情。

They found that women have more deal breakers than men, but there were more similarities than differences between the sexes when asked to list what they deemed as a turnoff.

研究人員發(fā)現(xiàn)女性無(wú)法接受的異性特征比男性要多，但在這些異性特征中，相似點(diǎn)多于不同點(diǎn)。

The list includes: unattractiveness, unhealthy lifestyle, undesirable personality traits, differing religious beliefs, limited social status, differing mating strategies and differing relationship goals.

七大導(dǎo)致分手的特質(zhì)包括：魅力不夠、生活方式不健康、有不良癖好、宗教信仰不同、社會(huì)地位低下、交往策略不同、情感追求不同。

The team also found that even though singles look for positive traits when evaluating a mate, they tend to subconsciously sniff out undesirable ones because of their deal breakers.

研究團(tuán)隊(duì)還發(fā)現(xiàn)，即使單身人士在尋找伴侶時(shí)往往會(huì)關(guān)注優(yōu)點(diǎn)，但由于受到內(nèi)心的擇偶禁忌影響，他們會(huì)下意識(shí)地排除掉不合適的異性。

The studies examined for creating the top seven deal breakers revealed that those who believe they are a good catch have more deal breakers and everyone has their own list if they are looking for a serious, long-term relationship, reports The Wall Street Journal.

華爾街日?qǐng)?bào)報(bào)道，提出七大分手特質(zhì)的研究表明，認(rèn)為自己是理想伴侶的人有更加嚴(yán)格的擇偶要求，并且，若是打算正式談一場(chǎng)長(zhǎng)期戀愛(ài)時(shí)，每個(gè)人心中都有一套自己的擇偶標(biāo)準(zhǔn)。

In one of the studies, 5,541 singles were given a list 17 negative personality traits and asked if they viewed each one as a deal breaker for a long-term relationship.

其中一項(xiàng)研究對(duì)5541名單身人士進(jìn)行了調(diào)查，調(diào)查期間給這些單身人士列出了17個(gè)異性缺點(diǎn)，同時(shí)還詢(xún)問(wèn)這些人是否會(huì)因這些缺點(diǎn)結(jié)束一段長(zhǎng)期戀情。

The top deal breakers for both women and men were 'disheveled' or 'unclean,' followed by 'lazy' and 'too needy'.

男性和女性最無(wú)法接受的是伴侶“衣冠不整”或“邋里邋遢”，其次是“懶惰”和“太窮”。

Women see 'lacks sense of humor' a very serious negative trait and won't even peruse the relationship, mainly because humor has been linked to intelligence.

女性認(rèn)為“缺少幽默感”是一個(gè)很大的缺點(diǎn)，她們甚至不會(huì)考慮繼續(xù)這段關(guān)系，這主要是因?yàn)樵诤艽蟪潭壬?，幽默感與智慧聯(lián)系在一起。

A separate study, found that men prefer not to date women who are smarter than they are and that 'low sex drive' and talks too much' are among their biggest deal breakers.

一項(xiàng)獨(dú)立研究發(fā)現(xiàn)，男性不愿同比自己聰明的女性約會(huì)，同樣，“性冷淡”和“話(huà)癆”也是約會(huì)成功的頭號(hào)殺手。

Another study asked 92 participants to list their biggest deal breakers when looking for both long-term and short-term partners, which produced extremely different results.

另有研究讓92名參與者列出在尋求長(zhǎng)期或短期伴侶中最不欣賞的異性特質(zhì)，最終發(fā)現(xiàn)，針對(duì)二者的答案有很大差異。

In long-term partners the top deal breakers were 'anger issues', 'is dating multiple partners' and 'dishonesty'.

在尋求長(zhǎng)期伴侶的過(guò)程中，最不欣賞的異性特質(zhì)有：“情緒問(wèn)題”、“腳踩兩只船”和“不誠(chéng)實(shí)”。

For short-term relationships, participants ranked 'has health issues, such as STDs,' 'smells bad' and 'has poor hygiene' at the top.

而對(duì)于短期感情關(guān)系，參與者更注重“健康問(wèn)題，比如有沒(méi)有性傳播疾病”、“體臭”以及“不講衛(wèi)生”。