雙語脫口秀《老外來了》:跟外國客戶、朋友、外國老師一起吃飯，都怎么買單？

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主播：翩翩老師，Sarrah老師

背景音樂：Get Up

我請客 My treat. / I'm buying.

AA制 Go dutch. / Split the bill.

Pay for what we eat. 支付自己享用的那部分即可。

**Who pays the bill when dating? 談戀愛的時候，吃飯誰買單?

1.開始談的時候

When you first start dating, the man should pay. If he is asking her out, he should pay.

第一次約會的時候，男生付錢。

If she asks him out, less pressure for the man.

如果女生邀請男生出來的話，男生壓力可能會少一些。

(但通常第一次約會，還是男生付錢更好。)

2.戀愛關(guān)系穩(wěn)定的時候

After awhile, they can take turns.

(Go Dutch – half and half, go back and forth)

可以輪流付錢。

Maybe he pays for big things and she pays for smaller things

(ex. He pays for food, she pays for coffee)

男生會支付一些“大件”，例如飯錢;女生可以付花費(fèi)少一些的，例如咖啡。

3. 如果女方經(jīng)常不付錢，會被鄙視嗎?

" expensive girl "

(Maybe not everyone will want to date her because they cannot afford to date her.) 可能不是所有人都會和她約會，因?yàn)榧s不起啊約不起。

There is a belief that men should take care of the woman.

人們普遍認(rèn)為，男人應(yīng)該照顧女人。

stereotype偏見/成見

It will be a bad date if he says: "Let's split it."

如果這位男生說AA吧，那么這第一次的約會可能也是最后一次了。

There are some other times when we eat out with other people.

**那么在其它場合(各類社會關(guān)系中)，誰來買單呢?

1.跟客戶、老師、不熟的人等社會關(guān)系一起進(jìn)餐時，誰請客?

business connection/dinner

The company will take the client out to dinner and the company will pay.

維護(hù)客戶關(guān)系，公司買單。

teacher/co-worker

Pay for your own food.

一般情況下，各付各的。

If you don't have any money, you don't go out.

如果沒有錢，就不要出去啦。

2.如果有朋友說：晚上一起吃飯吧，他要請客嗎?

He doesn't want to eat by himself.

只是不想自己一個人吃飯罷了 -_-!

3.在中國，跟外國人一起吃飯，可以AA制嗎?

"How will we pay for this?"or"How do you want to pay for this?"

我們怎么付錢呢?

對方先買單，為了表示禮貌，可以這么說?

"How much do I owe(欠) you? "

4.如果這次朋友請客，需要還人情嗎?

規(guī)則非常清楚，無關(guān)人情。

如果對方說了：這次我請你，下次你請我的話，下次就要還回去。

很少朋友會請客/rare

Don't be afraid to ask the question at the end of the meal.

- "who's going to pay?"/"how do you want to pay for this?"