Ben Sweetland曾經(jīng)說(shuō)過,在人們遇到的問題中,有95%來(lái)源于消極的心態(tài)。如果事實(shí)如此,而且你不想遇到更多的問題,那么你就要多想一想好的事,想一想積極的事,想一想那些能幫助我們做出改變的事。
It's your job to reprogram your mind through learning and self-development, so you can find solutions to your problems. And then notice the possibilities and opportunities that have always been lying right in front of your face, but your limited mind had not allowed you to see.
你不斷學(xué)習(xí),提升自己,讓自己的思想得到升華,這樣你才能找到問題的解決辦法。你也需要留心一下,生活中其實(shí)有很多可能性、很多機(jī)會(huì)擺在你面前,只是你的思維太局限,沒能看到它們而已。
Negativity keeps you blind to opportunities. It keeps you blind to the good in the world. It holds you hostage to your true potential. Negative people will always remain in the prison of their self-imposed limits. Sometimes it's a life sentence, because they've convinced themselves there is no way out. They've convinced themselves it's someone else's fault they are in that prison. Other people are holding them there. But they have the key. You have the key.
消極的心態(tài),會(huì)讓你忽視機(jī)會(huì),讓你忽視世界上的美好,讓你無(wú)法施展自己的才華。消極的人,總是在原地打轉(zhuǎn),限制住自己。有時(shí)候,這就像終身監(jiān)禁一樣,因?yàn)樗麄冏屪约合嘈?,自己永遠(yuǎn)出不去。他們讓自己相信,自己被困在這個(gè)牢籠里,是別人造成的,是別人要把他們困在里面。但是,事實(shí)上,他們能憑自己的努力走出去,你也可以。