一起聽(tīng)英語(yǔ) 205 男人哭吧哭吧不是罪

男人平均一年哭多少次，他們會(huì)在什么情況下流淚呢?貝克漢姆曾在他職業(yè)生涯的最后一場(chǎng)足球賽里悵然涕下......

Neil: Hello and welcome to 6 Minute English with me, Neil, and a very sad looking

Finn.

Finn: Hi Neil.

Neil: Oh dear, what’s wrong Finn?

Finn: It’s just this beautiful piece of classical music always makes me cry.

Neil: Ah… I see! Finn is a man who cries. That is interesting because this programme

is all about men who cry.

Finn: Well, I don't cry all the time, Neil!

Neil: We can talk more about your crying later, but first it’s our quiz question. And, of

course, it’s about crying. Finn, take this tissue and dry your eyes and answer

this…

Finn: Thank you. I’ll try my best.

Neil: An organisation of eye scientists, called the German Society of Ophthalmology,

did some research about male crying habits. I want to know how often men cry

every year. Is it:

a) Between one and five times.

b) Between six and 17 times.

c) Between 18 and 25 times.

Finn: I think it’s b): six and 17 times.

Neil: OK, we will find out at the end of the programme. But back to your classical

music now Finn. Do you often cry when you hear a piece of music you love?

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Finn: Well, not always. It depends on a few different things. And if the music reminds

me of something, I can become emotional.

Neil: You can say someone is ‘emotional’ if they are showing strong feelings. Well,

Finn, you are not the only man who has cried in public recently. David Beckham

cried at the end of the final football match of his career. And George Osborne,

who is the British finance minister, was recently seen on TV crying. He was at

the funeral of the former British prime minister, Margaret Thatcher.

Finn: A funeral is the ceremony people go to when someone has died. But why do you

sound surprised? It’s normal to cry – especially at a funeral.

Neil: But, is it normal for men to cry? People thought it was so strange for the finance

minister George Osborne to cry in public that they asked him why he did it.

Listen to his answer. He uses that word we talked about - ‘emotional’. Listen for

it.

British finance minister, George Osborne:

I guess I welled up a bit because I thought it was a very emotional and moving occasion and

at times overwhelming.

Neil: So, he cried because it was an emotional occasion. He used another two words to

describe the funeral. Now let’s listen again. Can you hear what they are?

British finance minister, George Osborne:

I guess I welled up a bit because I thought it was a very emotional and moving occasion and

at times overwhelming.

Neil: What did he say, Finn?

Finn: He said it was moving. If something is moving, it means that it makes you feel

sad.

Neil: Just like that piece of music that makes you cry, Finn.

Finn: OK, Neil. That piece of music is very moving for me.

Neil: He also said that the ceremony was overwhelming. When something is

overwhelming it makes you feel so emotional, you can’t cope! You have to cry.

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Finn: Come on, Neil. It’s time for me to ask you some questions. Don't you ever well

up – meaning your eyes fill with tears? You must have had a moving or

overwhelming experience.

Neil: Of course I have. I welled up when I got married and I cried like a baby when

my children were born – but that was because I was so happy.

Finn: Ah, so are you saying that it’s OK to cry from happiness?

Neil: Maybe that’s true. Lots of men cried during the London Olympics in 2012.

Perhaps it’s becoming more normal, but it still seems that if you are a man and

you cry in public, it will be talked about in the media as if it is strange or wrong.

But, enough about me…

Finn: I can see you are trying to avoid talking about this subject, Neil. Does it make

you feel uncomfortable or embarrassed?

Neil: Not at all. I am a modern man. But just let me turn this on again and see what

happens.

Finn: Ah, that’s not fair, Neil.

Neil: He’s going to start again. Yes, I can see tears – he’s welling up. Here’s the

answer to our quiz question. How often do men cry every year?

Finn: I said between b) six and 17 times.

Neil: And you are right. Join us again for 6 Minute English.